Many times, a guy is not ready for a new relationship because he has been hurt in the past, and it might have been recently too.
It could be that he does not want to make himself vulnerable again – he probably believes he could get hurt again.
But sometimes the chemical attraction is so great that he will try and fight what he feels to protect himself. Sometimes it is because he knows other people will think it’s wrong.
How do you know when a guy is fighting his feelings for you?
He might get annoyed with you when you mention other guys as if you should know he has feelings for you!
He won’t actually show you that he has a crush on you himself because he is confused about his own feelings and is trying to hide them from you. Check out some more signs.
What should you do when a guy is scared of his feelings for you?
You might suspect that the reason he is fighting his feelings for you is that he fears rejection. But if you like him, there is plenty that you can do to help him along.
You can start to engage with him, and listen to him, make good eye contact with him, and become his friend. As long as you don’t stay in the friend zone if you want something more.
Let your body language show him that you are open to starting an honest relationship with him.
Love can change everything.
If you have a guy whom you are falling for, but he is hiding his feelings from you, it is also the key to remember that guys don’t have the same feelings in the same way women do.
They have been wired differently, first relying on their minds and rationalizing things.
Women follow their hearts whilst men will put their emotions aside, particularly if they have been hurt in the past.
He would learn to hide and fight his feelings when he believed it was right for him.
It could even be that he already has a girlfriend.
That could be a reason why he would not reveal he has feelings for you.
He is fighting his battle alone.
We have given you 21 reasons why a guy would fight his feelings for you.
You will know exactly where you stand if you have such a guy in your life.
You might have always been used to guys around you playing games and fooling around and keeping things casual.
But now one might have developed really deep feelings for you, and it is proving extremely difficult for him to hide his feelings if he is your friend or if he is in the same workspace or environment as you.
If you like him enough, you can do something about it.
You can draw closer to him and show him you are interested because he might have forgotten that…
‘He tries to hide his feelings, but he forgets that his eyes speak’