Last updated on October 5th, 2019 at 06:37 pm

Do you need some very effective questions to ask your crush right away?

Have you got someone you’ve been crushing on for a long, long time and finally have the grand opportunity to talk to him or her face to face?

Believe me, it can both exciting and nerve-wracking.

Exciting in the sense that you’ve finally achieved your goal of having a conversation with your crush, and nerve-wracking when you are absolutely lost for words.

It has happened to me and to many others the world over.

It all boils down to preparation.

You see, my friend, preparation is the key to everything.

And what’s a better way to get prepared than to empower yourself with a list of star-studded questions.

That’s what I have for you today; 21 Powerful, Soul-Touching Questions to Ask Your Crush.

Are you ready?

If so, let the party begin…

1) What is the most stupid rule you have to follow?

Girl who is not concerned


We all have this stupid or ridiculous rule that we have no choice but to follow.

It could be from our parents, teachers, lecturers, government, etc.

This question will almost always make someone chuckle before giving an answer and that is what you need.

You need him or her to smile or chuckle. That’ll lay the groundwork for a successful conversation.

2) What is the awesome thing you’ve seen someone post on social media?

Girls smiling

Personally, I have seen tons of wonderful post on Facebook that has made me shed tears so many times.

And I believe many have actually come across a post once or twice that made them cry or laugh profusely.

This question will no doubt bring your crush out emotionally and all you have to do is sit back and enjoy the story.

3) In 3 words, how would you describe yourself?

Describe yourself

Simple. Yet incredibly difficult.

This is one of the thought-provoking questions that I personally don’t like.

But many people do and I’m guessing you are.

But the question is all about actually getting to know your crush.

It also shows that you treasure the conversation.

4) How would you describe me in 3 words?

Guy looking surprised


You should proceed with caution on this one because your crush is just getting to know you.

Moreover, this may even be the first time he/she is having a conversation with you.

So why should one describe you in 3 words when he knows nothing about you.

I know such thoughts would be running through your mind right now too. Isn’t it?

But here is the catch.

This question is all about getting to know the temperament of your crush.

That’s it.

I’ve seen some people go so furious when asked this question while others laughed hard and explained why they can’t answer.

And their reason is almost always the same – I am just getting to know you.

But by and large, it is still a pretty nice question to ask.

Try it and thank me later.

5) If you could have any job in the world, what would that be?

Happy lady doing her job

Mine is an Aero Engineer.

What’s yours, Sleeping or Eating?. LOL.

I’m just kidding.

You see, everyone has their dream jobs and that’s what you want to find out from your crush.

You might even be surprised that both of you has the same career path or same dream job and that’ll be incredibly marvelous to learn about. Isn’t it?

6) What is the one thing you would lie about to your best friend?

Another very interesting question to ask your crush. This question is actually for fun.

We all have a thing or two we lie about to our friends and it can never change.

Although your crush may deny ever lying to his or her friends, but don’t worry, you’ll find out the truth sooner or later.

7) If you could change one thing about your life right now, what would it be?

Changing yourself

Simple question.

It is no brainer.

There is no human on earth who doesn’t have a thing or two that requires real change in his or her life.

So this is pretty much a viewpoint question.

8) What fictional character do you have the biggest crush on?

Fictional character

James Bond, Nick Adams, Isabel Archer, Adam Bede, Gerald Crich, Hardy Boys, George Knightley, and the list goes on and on.

Those are actually my favorite all time fictional characters. Everyone has theirs including you and your crush.

You might even be pleasantly surprised that you two have the same favorite fictional character(s).

Truth is, there are so many fictional characters we have the biggest crush on.

So this question would be one of the most exciting ones to ask your crush.

And the answers would reveal a thing or two about your crush’s lifestyle.

So get on with this one.

9) What would your parents be surprised to learn about you?

Father and son surprised


Also, go with caution on this too.

You crush may not be willing to divulge any secret to you right now.

Truth is, for many people including me, there are some things we may not like to share with our parents.

And at the same time, don’t like sharing it with others too.

Especially if they are getting to you well for the first time or even not the first time.

By the way, this is a nice question to ask.

It clearly shows that you understand the societal fabric pretty much.

Just listen to your crush’s response and then proceed from there on.

10) What do you find most hilarious but most people don’t find funny?

Friends unhappy

This is actually a funny question.

There are so many things I find hilarious but my friends don’t find funny.

For example, when someone pulls away a chair my friend is about sitting on and he lands with his butt on the ground.

I usually laugh out my heart.

Many people don’t find it funny but I actually do.

And I’m pretty sure it resonates with you too.

The fact is, everyone has a situation or scene they find funny but others find incredibly serious.

So get ready to burst out a laugh when the answer to this question starts pouring in.

11) What one thing would you be most disappointed if you never got to experience it?

Lady disappointed

For most women, it’s childbirth and rearing.

For most men (and even women too), it could be the excitement of paying off their mortgage completely, getting their dream job or even buying their dream car or home.

12) What’s your most listened to the song?

Man listening to music

O, this reminds me of some my all-time favorite songs – Mamma Mia by Abba Gold and Keep You Much Longer by Akon.

I’m pretty sure you have yours as well. Kindly drop those in the comment section too.

So your aim here is to find out the type or genre of the song your crush likes the most and you might even be surprised that the both of you may have the same song as an all-time favorite.

That’ll be really fantastic to learn.

13) If you were a performing artist, what would you title the first album?

Performing artist

Mine would be ‘Trump Out’.

Don’t ask me why.

But that’s what I’ll title my first album.

You can tell me about yours in the comment section below.

But this question is truly an interesting one most especially if your crush loves singing and dream to become a great music star in the future.

You can also ask a follow-up question like: Why would you give your album such a name?

That’ll really get the discussion moving.

14) If you won a lottery, what’s the first you would do?

Woman won a lottery

I’ll pay off my parent’s mortgage first and then invest the others in a dream project of mine.

This question will truly expose the intellect of your crush when it comes to managing money.

15) What story do your friends still give you crap about?

Group of friends not enjoying_story

My friends hate the Mexican Fisher story to date.

I actually don’t know why but it seems they don’t quite agree with the moral of the story.

But that’s their problem.

I still enjoy the story nonetheless.

So your aim here is for your crush to tell you a little bit about his or her friends.

Some follow up questions might be necessary too.

16) What is the weirdest thing you find attractive in a person?

This is also one of the most fantastic questions to ask your crush.

The thing you find appealing might be the weirdest for your crush.

They say; “One man food is another man’s poison”.

And that’s the truth.

Another thing you might find out that’ll burst our bubble is that something that’s weird to you may also be weird to your crush as well.

That’s the more reason why you shouldn’t be scared of asking questions even if they may seem kinda off-track at first.

17) What is the most beautiful place on earth you would like to visit?


Oh,’ The Bahamas.

What a lovely, beautiful country.

You really should visit there if you’ve not already done so.

It’s one of the most beautiful places on earth, believe me.

So let’s get back to our topic at hand.

Everyone has a dream place or country or island to visit (mine just happens to be The Bahamas).

This question would really bring a smile and a hope for your crush’s face.

Make sure you ask this question first and comment below his or her response.

Don’t forget else I’ll track you down!


Was just joking.

18) What is the scariest experience you have ever had?

Scary experience

Have you ever woken up one day and next thing “sleeping” beside you is a huge snake.

Yeah, that’s the most horrible and scariest experience of my life.

Whenever I think about it, I always do take look around me to see if there is a snake by my side.

Really scary!

So get ready the be wowed by your crush’s answer to this question.

19) What do you spend most of your money on?

Lady shopping

Clothes, shoes, jewelry, bags, games, women (for womanizers), cars, and the list go on.

This question would actually reveal what your crush likes the most and willing to spend a huge chunk of his or her cash to get hold of it.

This might also reveal if your crush is a materialistic type or not.

20) What is something you have read or heard that has stuck with you for many years?

Lady thinking

There are so many adages, statements, advice that has stuck with us for many years and will probably be with us until we pass away.

You’ll get to learn something new as the answer to this question unfolds.

So if you want to take something juicy home, make sure you ask this question early enough.

21) What is the first thing you would do if you were the opposite sex for one day?

Guy and lady hand control


I kept the best for the last.

That reminds me of the song – If I were a Boy by Beyoncé.

That song perfectly describes what I’ll do if I happen to be a boy just for a day.

And I’ll even do much more.

So, the goal here is to ascertain your crush’s attitude towards the opposite sex and it may also reveal an important part of his life too.

Come to think of it, some girls actually do want to become a man if given the opportunity because they like to be in control all the time.

That can be a good and bad sign in itself.

So tread carefully after this question has been answered because you may be in for a shock.


So that was it!

These are obviously not all the questions to ask your crush but it’s what I can remember for now.

I’ll be updating this post if any good one pops into my brain.

What I’d like for you to do is read and understand the purpose/intent of these questions.

Make sure you don’t ask stupid annoying questions that’ll almost always ruin any conversation right off the bat.

So let the fun begin.

I actually do have a hot guy I’m crushing on right now so I’ll begin preparation.

By the way, let me know what you think in the comment section below.

Bye for now and have a splendid day ahead.

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