Do you want to get closer to a girl you admire so much or the one you are going out with already?
If you’ve answered in the affirmative to all the questions above, then it’s high time you brushed up on your conversation skills.
A simple question can almost always initiate a lengthy conversation and a good conversation is necessary to understand a girl better.
After all, understanding your girl is what this game is all about.
The skills of conversation are sometimes inborn in some people but most of us need to develop these skills, and with practice, we’ll become good at it.
One thing that is of primary importance is to listen attentively to the girl’s answer and then come up with follow up questions.
In no time, you will be having an avid conversation with her as time will seem to fly away.
After all, that is one of the reasons for having a conversation with her in the first place, isn’t it?
To pass the time.
So, let’s dive right in.
In this article, you are going to discover 300 fascinating and interesting questions to ask a girl or your girlfriend and have been subdivided into various categories to make it easier for you to skim through.
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To get a conversation to flow naturally, do not overthink. Speak your mind and listen carefully when the girl speaks. You can even ask her if she is allergic to any food, or if she finds a specific dish unpalatable.
These exciting tidbits offer us a peek into another person’s life and her likes as well as her dislikes.
7) Who is your best friend from childhood? How did you meet? Are you still in touch?
It is often said that friends are for life. While that is not quite the reality, there are, however, few friends who remain with us through our lifetime.
Best friends are such rare gems who will always be a part of our life and who have influenced us a lot. It is a special relationship, and we share some special moments with them.
Getting her to share those special memories with you is the best you can do.
Although talking about her best friend is a great idea unless she is touchy about it.
If she doesn’t want to answer it now, let her be.
She will come around once she wants to confide in you and trust you.
8) Do you play any sport? Do you follow any sport?
Contrary to popular belief, girls are also interested in sports and can play quite well.
Women around the world have been widely taking to sports and excelling too.
Many girls enjoy sports and adventure as much as we boys do.
So try to find out if she likes a particular game or if she plays any, during her free time.
If it is a sport you both enjoy, then you can bond over it very quickly. So these are some general questions to ask to get to know a girl.
You can try to come up with some of your own.
The idea is to get her to open up to you and share the moments and memories that she holds near and dear.
9) What is the best and worst thing about being a girl?
This will give her a chance to really give it a thought if she has not already done so and will help her learn more about herself too.
On the other hand, you get to know what she treasures.
10) Do you have any special skills no one knows about?
This is an interesting question that brings out the best in a girl.
Many of us have certain unique talents that we keep to ourselves hidden away from the rest of the world.
She may have some unusual talents as well. Prod her about any weird skill she might have picked up over the years.
More often than no we shy away from showing such unconventional skills, but given the right opportunity we let ourselves out.
11) Can you tell me about an embarrassing moment you had?
Even though some girls may not want to answer such questions, the majority will find it amusing and will often tell you about an embarrassing situation.
We all have faced such situations, and we have promptly moved on by leaving such incidents behind us.
It is a great way to remember such an incident after a long time and share some casual laughs.
12) Do you have any unnatural fears?
Talking about unnatural fears may not be the best idea, however, if a girl shares her fears with you openly, then it only shows her courage.
Upon knowing her fear, you can help her face it and overcome it.
Sometimes we need a guiding hand to help us cross a wobbly bridge. Be that guiding hand and don’t let go.
Also, assure her you are not going to play a prank on her once you know about her fear.
13) What are some of your strengths? What aspects of your personality do you think needs improvement?
These are deep questions, and it requires a great deal of courage and honesty to answer them.
Talking with each other about your strengths helps you to understand each other better.
You can now decide if she is the girl for you. She too can determine if you are the kind of guy she is looking for.
When talking about her weaknesses, try to be compassionate and helpful towards her instead of judging her.
Words of kindness and encouragement can help her overcome her shortcomings, and you too can gain the same way.
14) Is there a particular memory that you keep going back to? Why?
This question is an even more personal question and delves deep into her psyche.
Every one of us holds our memories very dear and near.
There are specific memories however which we hold closer and dearer than the rest.
Getting a girl to talk about a memory she keeps remembering is asking a lot from her. But she will be willing to open up if your approach is encouraging and shows genuine care rather than pure curiosity.
Share your memories too and hours will pass you by without your notice.
15) What part of your culture are you proud of? And what part of it do you detest?
Personal questions seem to be the norm of this article, one might say. When you are trying to get to know a girl better, personal questions are the best way to go.
Not only are you asking questions about her culture but also about her opinion on it.
In this way, you get to know where the girl comes from and what her people are like.
The social festivities she takes part in, the religion she follows, and the customs she follows.
Once you get to know the initial details delve deeper and ask for her opinion on the customs of her culture.
Such debates on social and cultural issues provide food for thought and also reveal how a person thinks.
16) If you were the head of the Government of your country then what steps will you take for the betterment of your citizen’s standard of living and the well-being of the international community?
At this point, you may be thinking if this is an interview question rather than an easy idea to pick up girls.
If the girl you want to know more about is socially aware and keeps track of current events in her country as well as around the world, then she will find this question appropriate, and finding it worthy of her time will give it some thought.
Questions like this will give you a clear idea of what she is like and if global or national affairs interest her at all.
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A sense of humor is a widely sought-after quality in men, but what many may not know is that men find humor in a woman equally attractive.
17) Could you narrate a funny incident that still brings a smile to your face?
Going down memory lane is a tricky business as one never knows what one might stumble upon.
Funny memories though, hold a special place in our hearts.
Ask her to narrate the incident vividly and listen intently.
Such incidents are a source of laughter many years later and also lets her re-live the moment again.
As the question subtly points out the incident will bring a smile on her face and yours too hopefully. Remembering funny incidents will lighten up the mood of the conversation.
18) Who was the worst guest you ever had at your house?
We all have some bad experiences with certain guests at our house.
While such incidents might not have been funny when it happened, they are hilarious when recounted after several years after we have moved on.
It is a good thing to look back at your past and extract some comedy out of it.
19) If you could replace ‘Hello’ as a greeting while answering the phone then what word would you use?
Questions like this get your creative juices flowing and turn a boring conversation on its head.
Watch her as she scratches her head to come up with words to replace ‘Hello’.
As creatures of habit, we are often unable to shed conventional practices in lieu of unconventional ones.
Have fun watching her try her best to find the right word for the situation.
The results are sure to be hilarious.
20) What annoys you the most?
This question is a goldmine!
All of us are easily annoyed by a lot of little things in our day to day lives.
Sharing such details with another person can result in comic outcomes.
Be amazed by the little things that get on her nerve.
This topic provides for loads of fun later on and if you have known her for quite some time now then use the knowledge to the best of your ability to really get to know her when the occasion presents itself.
Do not however cross the line!
21) Name a few changes that you think should be made to your country’s education system?
There is so much to talk about when it comes to the running of a country among them perhaps none is as widely talked about as the country’s education system.
Get her opinion on the current education system, what she think is not working, and how it can be improved.
These are basic social things we should be aware of as citizens and debating on such issues is great to keep a conversation running.
22) What period in history had the best fashion?
Girls are naturally towards anything associated with fashion. Most girls do indeed have a keen eye for fashion.
Fashion has undergone dynamic changes throughout history, and there are few things as exciting as getting a girl’s take on the history of fashion.
23) What superpower would you like to have? How are you going to use it?
I am going to sum it up by going fictional. Superpowers are what everyone wants.
It will be interesting to know what power she would like.
Much more fascinating to know will be how she will put it to use for the greater good, or will she?
24) Comfort or Trend? Choose.
With this one, you get to know her opinion on one of the more important facets of a girl’s life- fashion.
25) What is an accessory for all occasions?
Another question pertaining to one of her many strong suits (pun involuntarily intended) which tells you about her likes as well as her choices.
26) What is your best dress style?
Comfort dresses are mostly simple and rarely extravagant, be it a boy or a girl.
If not so, run, faster than you can.
27) Long walks or Long drives?
A long drive sounds better than a long walk only when someone else is driving.
If she prefers walking to driving ask her out on a trek.
28) Where would you like to go if you are traveling alone?
Contrary to popular belief women are more than capable of solo travel.
Don’t presume otherwise! Suggest a destination that may appeal to her.
29) Which woman motivates you the most?
Behind every successful woman is another woman inspiring her.
Who is that woman in her life?
It doesn’t have to be famous.
Maybe her mother or grandmother inspires her. Tell her about the woman who inspires you too.
30) What are the three qualities you look for in a man?
Ah! The golden question.
Listen carefully and behave accordingly.
31) What are the three qualities you look for in a woman?
Listen even more carefully! Speaks volumes about the girl.
32) The first thing you notice on a date?
If you are planning to ask her on a date this is where you pay attention.
Brush, shave, shower, and put on your best attitude, is all we can say.
She will tell you the rest.
33) What is the most relaxing spot in your house?
The roof seems to be popular.
May even be her room. Important to know for the future.
34) How do you spend your time alone?
This allows her to open up about what she does in her private time. Never invade someone’s alone time. Help her spend it better instead.
35) What five things are on your bucket list?
A good chance to find things in common. You can also help her to take a few of them off the list.
36) What are your ambitions in life?
Talking about her goals will lead you to understand what she wants from life. It will also reveal how driven she is.
37) Beach, Forrest, Hill, or Countryside? Where do you feel the most peaceful?
A multiple-choice question which tells you if she likes the same destination as you like.
38) Do looks matter?
To some it does. To others it is trivial. Which group does she belong to? Very important to know.
39) Do you prefer a routine to spontaneity?
Does she plan everything?
Does she go with the flow?
In the words of Heath Ledger’s Joker, is she “a schemer” or “a dog chasing a car”?
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