Last updated on February 17th, 2020 at 02:16 am

  • Are you looking for good questions to ask a girl or maybe a few fun first date questions?
  • Does the girl you have a crush on, render you speechless?
  • Does your otherwise active mind draw a blank each time you see a girl you want to talk to?
  • Is breaking the ice, not your forte?
  • Do you want to get closer to a girl you admire so much or the one you are going out with already?

If you have answered all of the above questions in the affirmative then it’s high time you brushed up on your speaking skills.

A simple question can almost always initiate a lengthy conversation and a good conversation is necessary to understand a girl better.

After all, understanding women are what this game is all about.

In this article, you are going to discover 251 fascinating and interesting questions to ask a girl or your girlfriend and has been subdivided into various categories for your ease.

So let’s get straight to it.

What Will I Learn?

21 Good Questions to Ask a Girl

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The skills of conversation are sometimes inborn in some people but most of us need to develop these skills, and with practice, we’ll become good at it.

One thing that is of primary importance is to listen attentively to the girl’s answer and then come up with follow up questions. In no time, you will be having an avid conversation with her as time will seem to fly away.

After all, that is one of the reasons for having a conversation with her in the first place, isn’t it?

To pass the time.

So, let’s dive right in.

First, let’s start off with common questions you can ask a girl.

1) What is your favorite book?



The good old favorite question!

You can’t go wrong with this.

Talk about the books she read growing up and which ones influenced her the most.

Ask her if she has any favorites.

Why does she like a book?

You can follow up with her favorite characters from books she most identifies with.

Answers to these questions will reveal a whole lot about the girl.

Also Read: Things to Talk About With a Girl

2) What are your favorite movies?


Movies tell us stories we otherwise would not have heard, it shows us characters we dream to be and take us to places we can only imagine in our dreams.

As with books, a person’s choice of movies and the characters she identifies with the most reveals a lot about her personality.

3) Who is your favorite artist? What are your favorite songs? What is your favorite band?

You can see where I am going with this.

The point of such questions as mentioned above is to understand her disposition and moral fabric.

You can understand her views and how she sees the world.

4) Do you have any hobbies?

Most of us do.

You may even find something in common with the girl.

A girl who is passionate about her hobbies is strong-willed, determined and patience to say the least.

To keep the conversation rolling, ask her more questions regarding her hobby.

Do not feign interest.

If you do not have any idea about what she does then let her know and ask her to teach you.

5) What is the last place you visited, what was it like and what other places are on your travel list?


Traveling is fun and also essential to get your bearings together in between the chaos of daily life.

Talking about foreign countries and exotic places fills us with wanderlust and is an excellent topic for conversation.

Share with her your travel plans for the future and see if the two of you have any places in common.

If you do, you can plan a vacation together.

Read: Good Morning Love Messages to Her

6) What’s your favorite food?


Yes, this is the tertiary need of every living thing after air and water.

Ask her about her favorite dish, her favorite places to eat out, the cuisines she likes and if she loves cooking.

This one of the most interesting questions to ask girls.

To get a conversation to flow naturally, do not over think. Speak your mind and listen carefully when the girl speaks.

You can even ask her if she is allergic to any food, or if she finds a specific dish unpalatable.

These exciting tidbits offer us a peek into another person’s life and her likes as well as her dislikes.

7) Who is your best friend from childhood? How did you meet? Are you still in touch?


It is often said that friends are for life.

While that is not quite the reality, there are, however, few friends who remain with us through our lifetime.

Best friends are such rare gems who will always be a part of our life and who have influenced us a lot.

It is a special relationship, and we share some special moments with them.

Getting her to share those special memories with you is the best you can do.

Although talking about her best friend is a great idea unless she is touchy about it. If she doesn’t want to answer it now, let her be.

She will come around once she wants to confide in you and trusts you.

8) Do you play any sport? Do you follow any sport?


Contrary to popular belief, girls are also interested in sports and can play quite well.

Women around the world have been widely taking to sports and excelling too.

Many girls enjoy sports and adventure as much as we boys do. So try to find out if she likes a particular game or if she plays any, during her free time.

If it is a sport you both enjoy, then you can bond over it very quickly.

So these are some general questions to ask to get to know a girl. You can try to come up with some of your own.

The idea is to get her to open up to you and share the moments and memories that she holds near and dear.

9) What is the best and worst thing about being a girl?

It is a significant question and asked for well thought out answers instead of the generic statements based on gender.

This will give her a chance to really give it a thought if she has not already done so and will help her learn more about herself too.

On the other hand, you get to know what she treasures.

10) Do you have any special skills no one knows about?


This is an interesting question which brings out the best in a girl.

Many of us have certain unique talents that we keep to ourselves hidden away from the rest of the world.

She may have some unusual talents as well. Prod her about any weird skill she might have picked up over the years.

More often than no we shy away from showing such unconventional skills, but given the right opportunity we let ourselves out.

11) Can you tell me about an embarrassing moment you had?

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Even though some girls may not want to answer such questions, the majority will find it amusing and will often tell you about an embarrassing situation.

We all have faced such situations, and we have promptly moved on by leaving such incidents behind us.

It is a great way to remember such an incident after a long time and share some casual laughs.

12) Do you have any unnatural fears?

Talking about unnatural fears may not be the best idea, however, if a girl shares her fears with you openly, then it only shows her courage.

Upon knowing her fear, you can help her face it and overcome it.

Sometimes we need a guiding hand to help us cross a wobbly bridge. Be that guiding hand and don’t let go.

Also, assure her you are not going to play a prank on her once you know about her fear.

13) What are some of your strengths? What aspects of your personality do you think needs improvement?

These are deep questions, and it requires a great deal of courage and honesty to answer them.

Talking with each other about your strengths helps you to understand each other better.

You can now decide if she is the girl for you. She too can determine if you are the kind of guy she is looking for.

When talking about her weaknesses, try to be compassionate and helpful towards her instead of judging her.

Words of kindness and encouragement can help her overcome her shortcomings, and you too can gain the same way.

14) Is there a particular memory that you keep going back to? Why?

This question is an even more personal question and delves deep into her psyche.

Every one of us holds our memories very dear and near.

There are specific memories however which we hold closer and dearer than the rest.

Getting a girl to talk about a memory she keeps remembering is asking a lot from her.

But she will be willing to open up if your approach is encouraging and shows genuine care rather than pure curiosity.

Share your memories too and hours will pass you by without your notice.

15) What part of your culture are you proud of? And what part of it do you detest?


Personal questions seem to be the norm of this article, one might say. When you are trying to get to know a girl better, personal questions are the best way to go.

Not only are you asking questions about her culture but also about her opinion on it.

In this way, you get to know where the girl comes from and what her people are like. ‘

The social festivities she takes part in, the religion she follows and the customs she follows.

Once you get to know the initial details delve deeper and ask for her opinion on the customs of her culture.

Such debates on social and cultural issues provide food for thought and also reveal how a person thinks.

16) If you were the head of the Government of your country then what steps will you take for the betterment of your citizen’s standard of living and the well-being of the international community?

At this point, you may be thinking if this is an interview question rather than an easy idea to pick up girls.

If the girl you want to know more about is socially aware and keeps track of current events in her country as well as around the world, then she will find this question appropriate and finding it worthy of her time will give it some thought.

Questions like this will give you a clear idea of what she is like and if global or national affairs interest her at all.

On a lighter note let’s take a look at some funny questions to ask a girl.

A sense of humor is a widely sought-after quality in men, but what many may not know is that men find humor in a woman equally attractive.

17) Could you please narrate a funny incident that still brings a smile to your face?

Going down memory lane is a tricky business as one never knows what one might stumble upon.

Funny memories though, hold a special place in our hearts. Ask her to narrate the incident vividly and listen intently.

Such incidents are a source of laughter many years later and also lets her re-live the moment again.

As the question subtly points out the incident will bring a smile on her face and yours too hopefully.

Remembering funny incidents will lighten up the mood of the conversation.

18) Who was the worst guest you ever had at your house? What was so worse about them?

We all have some bad experiences with certain guests at our house.

While such incidents might not have been funny when it happened, they are hilarious when recounted after several years after we have moved on.

It is a good thing to look back at your past and extract some comedy out of it.

19) If you could replace ‘Hello’ as a greeting while answering the phone then what word would you suggest?

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Questions like this get your creative juices flowing and turn a boring conversation on its head.

Watch her as she scratches her head to come up with words to replace ‘Hello’.

As creatures of habit, we are often unable to shed conventional practices in lieu of unconventional ones.

Have fun watching her try her best to find the right word for the situation.

The results are sure to be hilarious.

20) What annoys you most?

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This question is a goldmine!

All of us are easily annoyed by a lot of little things in our day to day lives.

Sharing such details with another person can result in comic outcomes.

Be amazed by the little things that get on her nerve.

This topic provides for loads of fun later on and if you have known her for quite some time now then use the knowledge to the best of your ability to really get to know her when the occasion presents itself.

Do not however cross the line!

21) Name a few changes that you think should be made to your country’s education system?

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There is so much to talk about when it comes to the running of a country among them perhaps none is as widely talked about as the country’s education system.

Get her opinion on the current education system, what she think is not working, and how it can be improved.

These are basic social things we should be aware of as citizens and debating on such issues is great to keep a conversation running.

22) Which period in history had the best fashion?


Girls are naturally towards anything associated with fashion.

Most girls do indeed have a keen eye for fashion.

Fashion has undergone dynamic changes throughout history, and there are few things as exciting as getting a girl’s take on the history of fashion.

While she talks about fashion be sure to make out her likes and dislikes.

After all, that is the essence of asking these questions.

23) What superpower would you like to have? How are you going to use it?

Super power

I am going to sum it up by going fictional. Superpowers are what everyone wants.

It will be interesting to know what power she would like.

Much more fascinating to know will be how she will put it to use for the greater good, or will she?

Other Great Questions to Ask

The following are some of the finest questions you can ask a girl and it has been divided (like I said earlier on) into several categories.


23 Conversation Starters to Ask a Girl

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Sitting besides a beautiful girl and not knowing what to say is almost like a nightmare and frankly, we have all been there.

You are often left with a weird toothy grin and no words, which puts her off.

This is why we are here to help you with a list of 23 questions to get you talking to that pretty girl who freezes your mind, twists your tongue and renders you momentarily speechless.

Read on to become a confident ice-breaker.

1) Sunrise or Sunset?

An apparently simple question to start with. It gives her an opportunity to think.

An uncommon way to start a conversation with a girl you don’t know yet or any person for that matter.

2) Describe your dream vacation?

We all have a dream vacation plan and so does she. Share yours too as one can never tell where this question may lead you.

3) Which season do you eagerly wait for every year?

Quite a common question to ask but one that can spark a nice conversation. You also get to know her preference.

4) What activities or hobbies do you love the most?

Our hobbies are personal and define how we are as persons. What better way to know her?

5) Do you follow current affairs and international news?

Is she aware? Are you?

6) Are you into any sport?

This might make or break a conversation. If she follows sport then good for you. Carry the conversation forward by asking her what sports she is into and if she plays any. May lead to a ‘play date’.

7) What is your favorite time of the day?

We all have it- that one time of the day we keep for ourselves. A pleasant way to start a conversation.

8) Do you have a favorite time of the year?

One question leads to another and then to another. A wider variation of the previous question. Effective nonetheless.

9) What kind of festival attracts you?

Carnivals? Food festivals? Music festivals? Or traditional ones? So many to choose from and you may find something in common.

10) Have you ever been to another country? Why? Also, tell me about your experience there.

If she hasn’t been to any ask her which country she always wished to visit.

11) Do you believe in God?

A fundamental question that addresses her beliefs. It also tells you if she is on the same page as you regarding the God dilemma.

12) Can you describe your first real adventure?

This gets her to open up about her past and also gives you an opportunity to share your adventure stories with her. Not many better ways to connect unless either one of you is a couch potato.

13) What was your first proper job?

First jobs are always memorable. It is the first real responsibility that one has to shoulder. You can also ask many other related questions.

14) If tomorrow is the last day on earth then how do you plan to spend it?

A rather thought-provoking question that addresses one of your deepest fears- nonexistence.

So much to do and so many places to go yet this is a question which may surprise you with a simple answer.

15) What is the best gift you ever received?

Now that you know try to better it if possible.

16) What is the best gift you have ever given to someone?

Tells you about the kind of person she is.

17) What are your religious beliefs?

To each their own. A vital question, however, to avoid conflict later on.

18) What is the last movie that you watched and enjoyed?

So much to talk about here. This may lead to long drawn conversations, and unless you have better plans, this is what you are after I believe.

19) If you could have a superpower which one would you choose and why?

Humans crave power. Superpowers are better. A tad unrealistic yet a good conversation starter.

20) What is the best advice you have received?

A piece of free advice is always solicited plus you get to know what matters to her. Share one you received with her.

21) What is the worst job you ever had? Why?

Complaining feels good.

Complaining to a companion? Better.

22) If you had the chance to go on a road trip with a famous personality where would you go and who would you take with you?

A fun question that gets her thinking and talking too.

23) Beauty or Brains? Which appeals more to you?

Both maybe?

Speaks a lot about the girl you want to go out with.

20 Best Questions to Ask a Girl

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Here is a score of the best questions you can ask a girl.

These questions not only get them thinking but also encourage them to share a lot about themselves than they would generally do.

The following questions maybe funny or weird but they are definitely off the track which is why we think they are the best.

1) Comfort or Trend? Choose.

With this one, you get to know her opinion on one of the more important facets of a girl’s life- fashion.

2) What is an accessory for all occasions?

Another question pertaining to one of her many strong suits (pun involuntarily intended) which tells you about her likes as well as her choices.

3) What is your comfort dress?

Comfort dresses are mostly simple and rarely extravagant, be it a boy or a girl.

If not so, run, faster than you can.

4) Long walks or Long drives?

A long drive sounds better than a long walk only when someone else is driving.

If she prefers walking to driving ask her out on a trek.

4) Where would you want to go if you are traveling alone?

Contrary to popular belief women are more than capable of solo travel.

Don’t presume otherwise! Suggest a destination that may appeal to her.

6) Which woman motivates you the most?

Behind every successful woman is another woman inspiring her.

Who is that woman in her life?

It doesn’t have to be famous.

Maybe her mother or grandmother inspires her. Tell her about the woman who inspires you.

7) What are the three qualities you look for in a man?

Ah! The golden question.

Listen carefully and behave accordingly.

8) What are the three qualities you look for in a woman?

Listen even more carefully! Speaks volumes about the girl.

9) The first thing you notice on a date?

If you are planning to ask her on a date this is where you pay attention.

Brush, shave, shower and put on your best attitude, is all we can say.

She will tell you the rest.

10) According to you, which is the most relaxing spot in your house?

The roof seems to be popular.

May even be her room. Important to know for the future.

11) How do you like to spend your alone time?

This allows her to open up about what she does in her private time. Never invade someone’s alone time. Help her spend it better instead.

12) What is your go anywhere, do anything fantasy?

Let your creative juices flow and may you keep on talking for hours at end.

13) What five things are on your bucket list?

A good chance to find things in common. You can also help her to take a few of them off the list.

14) What are your ambitions in life?

Talking about her goals will lead you to understand what she wants from life. It will also reveal how driven she is.

15) Beach, Forrest, Hill or Countryside? Where does she feel the most peaceful?

A multiple-choice question which tells you if she likes the same destination as you like.

16) Do looks matter?

To some it does. To others it is trivial. Which group does she belong to? Very important to know.

17) Do you prefer a routine to spontaneity?

  • Does she plan everything?
  • Does she go with the flow?

In the words of Heath Ledger’s Joker, is she “a schemer” or “a dog chasing a car”?

18) Do you have a sweet tooth?

Most of us do. If she does too, treats her!

19) Which era of fashion does she like the most?

Not your forte? Don’t worry. You only need to listen. Let her express herself.

20) Are you an extrovert or are you an introvert?

She talks either way and you act accordingly. If she is an introvert avoid asking private questions too early.

A patient ear is what an introvert mostly needs.

Lend her one.

21 Questions to Ask a Girl You Like

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Going up to the girl you like is nerve-wracking.

Talking to her is even more so. Fret not, as we have compiled 21 questions to ask the girl you like.

The objective is to know her better than you currently do and to get her to like you back.

Read on, Romeos.

1) What can I cook to impress you?

Right off the bat an impressive question. It shows the girl you like how far you are willing to go for her.

You also learn about her tastes.

2) Do you prefer cooking at home or eating out?

This is something you need to know before further dates so that you don’t burn a hole in your pocket.

3) What is your comfort food?

More food-related questions. It is important to know the dish that comforts her and maybe later cook it for her.

4) What is your favorite flavor of ice cream?

Essential to know, especially when she is sad.

5) How do you like to have your eggs?

Eggs are the great divider.

Scrambled or omelet, poached or boiled?

Learn to make her favorite kind and surprise her.

6) What is your favorite street food? Which is your go-to place for street food?

Food conversations are always great fun.

Even more so when it involves street food. Maybe you get to know of a place you haven’t been to before.

You too can suggest her to try a particular place or dish.

7) What is your favorite cuisine?

More food question.

Still relevant.

Saves the hassle of planning where to eat on your next date.

No more food questions, seriously.

8) Do you like to party?

Or does she like it more personal?

Are you two on the same page?

9) Were you well behaved or naughty as a kid?

How much has she changed since then?

10) Who is your favorite writer?

We all have favorite writers and it’ll be incredibly awesome to know hers.

11) What is your favorite genre of book?

Useful to know if there is a special occasion coming up like her birthday.

12) What is your favorite genre of music or favorite artist(s)?

Silently pray that she doesn’t name Justin Bieber. Start collecting songs that may mean something to her.

13) Mind or Heart, which one do you follow more often?

14) Do you believe in love at first sight?

Also, ask her if she ever fell in love at first sight.

15) What three things she must have in her handbag?

Her choice of items and the reasons behind choosing said items reveal her personality.

16) Who do you trust for advice?

If you really like the girl you need to get on the good side of the person she blindly trusts.

17) What would be your dream job?

You get to know about what she likes to do from the answer to this question.

18) Are you a new age or old school?

This one may spark a debate. Debates are an effective way to understand the other person’s point of view.

19) Humorous or Serious? Choose.

Crack a joke or two. You’ll know.

20) One word your family may use to describe you?


This is might be a funny question but sometimes it is not.

It really tells the kind of girl she is.

21) One word your friends may use to describe you?

Some friends can be crazy at times and in fact, friends give us nicknames that sound funny as hell.

20 Funny Questions to Ask a Girl

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Every girl likes a guy who can make her laugh. Humor is one of the many qualities that a girl searches for in a man.

It’s time to be humorous and tickle her funny bone.

Don’t have any original one-liner? Don’t sweat.

Here we have a list of twenty funny questions to ask a girl.

1) Who is your most annoying family member?

We all have one, maybe more than one. She will hardly pass over the chance to complain about an annoying relative.

2) Have you ever pulled an outrageous prank on someone?

If yes then dare her to do a more outrageous one. If she hasn’t, it’s time you taught her.

3) Who is the worst person to be stuck on an island with?

Pray to the invisible being you believe in that she doesn’t take your name.

4) What is the weirdest text message you received from your parents?

There must be many between the two of you to laugh away an entire evening.

5) What is the funniest advice you have ever received from a younger sibling?

Unsolicited advice is often hilarious.

6) What is the weirdest rumor you have heard about yourself?

Rumors! The bane of our existence. Best to take them with a pinch of salt.

7) Can you describe an embarrassing situation you have been in?

Don’t be shy to reveal your own awkward experiences. Bonding over your embarrassments can be more fun than you expect.

8) What was your weirdest experience at a family gathering?

Family and weirdness go hand in hand. You also get to know how weird her family is.

9) Can you name an unconventional pet that you wish to keep and why?


This is sweet for almost all ladies out there.

This question will definitely bring out the sweet and loving side of her.

10) Which song annoys you the most?

Hope against hope it is one of Bieber’s or someone you don’t like.

11) Is there a tune that you can’t get out of your head but you find extremely annoying?

Na na na na na na na na na na…. Batman!

You got that, right?

12) Will you tell me about an embarrassing childhood memory?

Don’t be shy. Tell her one too.

13) What was the strangest dream you ever had?

From running naked in your school hallway to walking a chicken by the beach. As if dreams could get any weirder.

14) Did you ever get into trouble for doing something illegal?

Poke the daredevil out from inside her. Reminiscing over old mistakes is fun.

15) If you were to be a dog, which breed would you be?

This is indeed a very funny question to ask any girl and it’ll definitely bring out the comedian in her.

16) Do you have any weird talents that people don’t know about?

Request her to show off her weird talent and you show off yours. Time shall fly.

17) What is a strange superstition you believe in?

Everywhere you go in the world, there is always a superstition about somebody or something. It’d be great to get to listen to hers.

18) Can you narrate an incident where you laughed hard but shouldn’t have?

Talking about old humorous incidents sets the ball rolling and you can spend the whole day laughing at your old deeds.

19) Which subject in school did you absolutely detest?

Get her to talk about her school days and you may never know where the conversation may end up.

20) Do you have a cousin who gets on your nerves? If so, who?

We all had to deal with an irksome cousin sometime in our lives.  Talking about it helps to understand what annoys each other.

Here’s a list of 55 funny questions to ask a girl to make her laugh really hard.

23 Random Questions to Ask a Girl

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Here are a few random questions that are quite useful to understand the girl you are talking to, even though most of the questions are quite odd while some are outright bizarre.

Go on and read these random questions to ask a girl.

1) Do you daydream?

It will reveal if she has an active imagination. A not so common way to find aspects in common.

2) Will you tell me about a phobia that you overcame?

Past fears are a great source of conversation. Sharing such things also gives her a sense of confidence that she can talk freely about her fears.

3) Have you ever got bullied in school?

A somewhat personal question that lets her open up about her past traumas. Try to empathize with her and share a similar story to her.

4) Have you ever gone out of your way to help someone? How?

Maybe you will need her help one day. It is best to know beforehand how benign she can be.

5) How do you relax after work?

It is advantageous to know such details in the long run.

6) Who are two of your favorite actresses and actors?

A fantastic question that will bring out her story-telling side.

7) What social custom confuses you?

This is an amusing way to learn about one another and also what the other finds confusing.

With so many customs around, this can be one long conversation.

8) What is your most used mode of transport?

The bus? The tube? A cycle? Or her own legs?

The next time she is out you will know how to find her.

9) Can you name one job you are willing to do without pay?

Nobody wants to do anything for free unless it is very close to their hearts.

Thus the answer to this query will disclose to you the kind of work she believes in and cares for.

10) Can you name a job you won’t do even for an absurdly large sum?

Now this question will disclose her sense of morality as well as the kind of jobs she detests.

11) What time do you wake up in the morning?

Just handy information. She may ask you the same question leading to a discussion.

12) If you could have only 5 possessions with you, what 5 items will you choose?

An apparently simple question but one that calls for quite a lot of mind searching.

Moreover, you get to know the things that really matter to her.

13) What is one skill that you want to develop?

Once you know it, try and help her out if you can. You can even learn the skill together.

14) How much did you enjoy school?

Not every one of us had the same experience at school. If she didn’t enjoy school, there must be some valid reason behind it.

Your job?

Find out what ailed her and then comfort her.

15) Which song are you currently listening to on loop?

What are the chances it is the same song you are listening to?

16) When did you vote for the first time?

One always remembers the first time they voted and you can talk about how times have changed since the last time you or she voted.

17) What will you do if you win a million dollars tomorrow?

Is she economical?

Or is she a happy spender?

Be sure to find out as it will become very significant if you two end up in a relationship later.

18) Are you fond of a dog or a cat?

Much more important than it sounds. Lets you know about her persona and you can also find out if you have the same likes as her.

19) If I give you $100, how will spend it?

Unlike the lottery question, this is a much smaller amount. How she decides to spend it will tell you a lot about the girl.

20) Given the chance, which country would you wish to be born in?

Discuss what aspects made her choose a particular country.

21) Can you survive a month without the internet?

Is she someone who is always on their smartphone or can she spend her time in other ways?

A person who can survive without the internet is for sure an interesting person.

22) Who is your favorite historical personality and why?

Her choice of personality reveals a great deal about her own.

23) What was the last book you read that left a lasting impression on you?

Books are an exciting source of amazing and in-depth conversations.

Here is a more detailed list of random questions to ask a girl that you’ll find very interesting.

25 Weird Questions to Ask a Girl

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Here we have put together 25 weird questions to ask a girl.

Do not get put off by the word ‘weird’.

More often than not weird questions are an excellent source of long, personal and sometimes amusing conversations.

It is the suddenness and the absurdity that often leads to thoughtful answers and enjoyable interactions.

1) Can you tell me about a peculiar phobia that you have?

We, humans, are fearful creatures but some of our fears are outright strange and at times laughable. Laugh over a few of such phobias that you two might have.

2) How long do you take in the shower?

Wisely choose a proper time and place for this one. It can go awry really quickly. However, it is an important question if you ever plan to live together.

3) Did you have any near-death experience?

This question can lead to recounting numerous minor accidents leading to quite an interesting interaction.

4) What will you never eat or drink to save your life?

Mild poison, perhaps?

5) Do you snore when you sleep?

Do not underestimate the significance of this question.

6) Do you have any weird habits?

I know I do.

7) What 3 things will you take with you if you were to go to space for a week?

A very probing question with the ability to bring out the thinker in her.

8) What 3 items are always in your refrigerator?

I know the answer but not going to say it.

This both a weird and interesting question to ask.

9) What is your opinion on PUBG?

A global fascination and the topic of heated discussions.

10) If you were a character in Game of Thrones, which house would you belong or owe allegiance to?

Another global phenomenon and an interesting talking point.

11) Have you ever gatecrashed a party and got away with it?

So many ladies have. Good to find out if she’s the type.

12) If you could spend a night with a celebrity, who would it be?

Who indeed? I know a lot of ladies would say, Justin Bieber.

13) Do you have any strange mania no one knows about?

A very weird question but still a very nice one to ask.

14) Have you ever sleep-walked?

Sleepwalking stories tend to be funny.

15) Do you have a collection of strange items that you are embarrassed about?

My girl used to have and I know pretty much every lady does have or used to have weird items that they don’t like.

16) What according to you can be the quirkiest ice-cream flavor?

Endless probabilities with this one.

17) Have you overheard any weird conversation in a public place? Narrate.

18) How would your dream room look like?

19) What are the three essential things in your bathroom?

20) Do you dislike a famous person for no good reason?

21) Can you tell me your funniest hangover story?

22) If you could be mayor of your city for a year, what changes will you bring about?

The answers to this question can be varying and motivating.

23) What is the weirdest dress that you’ve ever worn?

24) At what age did you learn how babies are born?

How she learned it is also a mightily interesting question.

25) What are 3 weird ingredients to make a smoothie with?

Aha, this is it!

Many girls would really love to answer this question straight away and it’ll how good or bad they are in making smoothies.

Click the link to get more weird questions to ask a girl.

21 Questions to Ask a Girl over Text

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Text message, be it via Messenger or via Whatsapp, is the go-to form of communication for most people in this day and age.

Boys and girls chat for hours on their smartphones and it is vital to know how to keep a girl’s attention over the phone, especially because she has the option to ignore you and chat with someone else.

Thus it is necessary to know the right questions to ask a girl over text messages to keep her talking to you. This program reveals some text messages girls send to men and how you can steal some of those powerful text messages.

1) Do you prefer real books or e-books?

The charm of real books is hard to come by in an electronic version however she might be into e-books. You can then ask her what she last read.

2) Streaming platforms or Movie Theatres? Where do you stand?

A currently raging debate perfect to chat hours about.

3) Can you spend a month without your cell phone?

A very difficult one but nice questions to ask any girl.

4) What are the 3 essential apps on your phone?

It will give you an idea of what she spends most of her time doing.

5) What are three advantages of technology?

6) What are the three disadvantages of technology?

7) If you could invent a technology, what purpose would it serve?

This can reveal a lot about how she thinks and what she cares about.

8) What are your opinion on Facebook and its effects?

This is a widely debated question.

We all have different opinions on this and it’ll be good to know her opinion on this too.

9) Are you into video games? What games have you played and are good at?

If she hasn’t played one, you can then invite her over and introduce her to one.

10) What are your thoughts on artificial intelligence?

11) Do you think technology can be used to combat global warming? How?

12) Do you think social media is a boon or a bane?

13) Have you been to live performance of a play?

If she hasn’t, offer to take her out to one.

14) What kind of indoor activities do you perform other than reading or gaming?

15) What outdoor activity excites you the most?

Propose a plan to go out and try her favored activity instead of chatting on the phone.

It can bring you a lot closer than any technology ever can.

16) Are you a follower of traditions?

17) What is the funniest auto-corrected message you have ever received?

Once she sends you a snapshot, you send her one. This can last a whole night.

18) What five songs are always on your cell phone?

19) If you could be part of a fictional world which one would you choose?

Also, ask her what role she will play in that world. The fantastic topic of conversation.

20) Which fantasy character does she relate to the most?

This is one such question which can give you clues about her personality.

21) At what age did you own your own cell phone?

This is one of the best questions to ask and I’m sure you’ll enjoy the answers.

27 Questions to Ask a Girl to Get to Know Her

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Getting to know a girl might be the toughest assignment you ever come across.

Understanding her is a completely different ball game.

However, a few well thought out questions can lead you to know her well enough to understand her better.

Look no further and continue reading.

1) Where were you born and brought up?

Early upbringing shapes a person.

2) What are a few enduring memories as a child?

Childhood is an amazing time and a source of diverse memories.

3) Can you narrate a story that scared you as a child?

We were told so many that answering this could take some time.

4) Are you still in touch with your childhood friends?

You may even ask her to introduce you to them.

5) Are you an early riser or a late sleeper?

6) Who were your early influences?

Maybe a famous figure or maybe a family member. Loads to talk about here.

7) Do you have any siblings? How is your relationship with them?

8) Growing up, who influenced you the most? Your father or mother?

9) Do you vote? What do you vote for?

This is central to understanding her social contribution.

10) What are your retirement plans?

Everyone thinks about it but not many talk about it.

11) What changes do you wish to bring about in society?

By asking this question you can find out what, according to her, is harmful to society.

12) Can you play any musical instruments?

13) Do you have any nicknames?

14) On what topic could you talk for fifteen minutes without any preparation?

Tell her to give a short speech in this regard. You will know what is close to her heart.

15) Window seat or aisle seat?

Better not fight over a seat.

16) What is your choice of alcohol?

17) Which book has left a lasting impression on you and you often go back to?

Books are bound to shape your thoughts and change you as a person.

18) What subjects did you like the most in school?

A chance to find some common ground.

19) Who is your closest friend?

Better not be you!

20) Does one’s skin color matter to you?

Not that it should but beneficial to know her opinions.

21) What was your favorite story as a child?

Tell her the one you remember.

22) How do you spend time during weekends?


23) If you were offered an all-expenses-paid trip to a city, where will you most likely go?

This will be a dream come true for so many girls. These questions would really get a very nice answer.

24) Which destination do you find the most romantic?

25) Do you have any unpopular opinion that you keep to yourself?

We all have conflicting opinions. Let her open up about her.

26) Do you have a pet? If not then do you want one?

What is her pet’s name?

27) Are you laidback or a fast mover?

The point?

Is she lazy?

More importantly, are you?

Here’s a powerful list of 58 best questions to ask a girl to get to know her.

27 Personal Questions to Ask a Girl

Guy asking personal question to girl

It’s time to get personal- in a friendly style.

Here are 27 questions for an intimate tête-à-tête with a girl.

Personal questions help you to better understand a girl you already know.

However, it’s a two-way street and you are going to have to open up about yourself too if you expect her to do the same.

1) What is one thing about you that others may find irritating?

Being able to adjust to another person’s fault is a quality that many find endearing.

2) What is one thing that irritates you?

Note carefully.

3) Are you ashamed of any prejudices you may have?

If she opens up about her weak points then you know she is worth investing your time in.

4) How close were you to your grandparents?

Memories involving grandparents are sweet and worth sharing.

5) What comforts you when you are ill?

Listen attentively. Very attentively. Remember too.

6) Do you have any bad habits that you are working on changing?

Bad habits are not as worse as projected. They are simply a reflection of our shortcomings.

7) How many close friends do you currently have?

We lose friends as we grow older. How many has she managed to stay close to?

8) Do you have any regrets?

Ask her about her regrets and why she feels like that.

9) What are your thoughts on marriage and having a family?

Very vital to discuss such things well in advance.

10) Which side of the bed do you sleep on?

Very crucial to know this one.

11) Any past boyfriend you still have feelings for?

This may be not answered truthfully or even answered at all. Ask at your own peril.

12) What is a positive lesson that you have learned from a past relationship?

You should learn it too.

13) What is your view on abortion?

Many ladies have a different opinion on this and it’d be incredibly nice to hear her opinion on this too.

14) What is your view on homosexuality?

Necessary issues must be discussed.

15) Have you ever taken any drugs?

This is important to know if you care for your health.

16) What little things in life annoy you the most?

Listen intently! You will do well to remember.

17) Do you believe emotional intimacy and physical intimacy can exist separately? Or do they have to come in a pair?

A very engaging topic to talk about.

18) A quality you admire in a person you do not like?

This takes courage to answer.

19) Can you recall any tragic incident that you experienced or witnessed which left a severe mark on you?

Tragedy has an uncanny, often amusing, way of bringing two people together.

20) Do you have strong opinions about any particular issue?

This question will tell you how much she cares about an issue or if she is overly opinionated.

21) Who would you choose between a brooding prince and a joyful pauper?

You will know of her priority in life from her answer.

22) Do you have any OCD?

Who doesn’t? What are hers?

23) Is there any childhood memory that still troubles you?

Sometimes a thoughtful ear is the only thing a girl needs.

24) Who was your first crush?

First crushes are rarely forgotten.

25) Do you have a crush on any celebrity?

26) What do you want from a relationship?

Does her need to match with yours?

27) What traits do you look for in your life partner?

It all boils down to this.

Get more 50 personal questions to ask a girl with notes.

23 Deep Questions to Ask a Girl

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Thought-provoking questions are the last on our list.

These questions demand attention and imagination.

The answers may range from creatively original to downright ridiculous, but they are sure to give you a lot to ponder on.

1) What are your thoughts on gender discrimination at the workplace?

This question is as much for the boys as it is for girls.

2) What gives you hope?

What drives her?

3) What do you think happens after death?

We will never know so put on your thinking hats and get creative.

4) Is there someone you once looked down upon but who taught you an important lesson later on?

One never stops learning.

5) How will the universe end?

In ice or in the fire?

6) Do you believe there may be life on some other planet?

A generic question that many today don’t have the answer to but it’s worth asking.

7) If you could be invisible for a day, what will you do?

Why would she tell you that? Still, a fun question to ask.

8) What steps are you taking to fight global warming?

9) What three steps can nations take immediately to curb pollution?

It is the need of the hour and ideas are always welcome.

10) What according to you is humanity’s biggest error?

Among the many millions that we have committed in the little time, we have been here.

11) If you could go 10 years back in time and meet your younger self, what advice would you give her?

12) If you could travel 10 years to the future and meet your older self, what question would you ask her?

Two very interesting questions.

13) Do you support any social causes?

14) Teenage or adulthood? Which do you prefer?

15) Do you have any political opinions? What are they?

Debate and discuss. Get to know each other.

16) What do you think is your purpose in life?

This is simply an amazing question to ask and the answers are always heartwarming.

17) If you could go back in time and change only one thing would you change anything? If so then what?

18) Is there any apparently trivial incident in your life which changed you forever?

19) What is the one thing that you want to accomplish before you die? Are you close?

A great question nevertheless.

It’ll bring out the ambitious spirit in her and she’ll definitely pour out her mind and heart out to you.

20) What keeps you awake at night?

Other than her cell phone and laptop.

21) Is there a recurring thought that scares you?

Find out what she truly fears and try helping her face her fear.

22) Are you afraid of death?

This is one question that I asked many girls and the answers have been always positive. It would be nice to know her opinion on this too.

23) Why do you think religion came into existence?

A very deep question and one that may divide you.

Here is also a list of extra 25 deep questions to ask a girl.

Questions to Ask a Girl In Video

In this very interesting video, Coco Chanou lists out some of the best questions to ask a girl that many guys get wrong.

I recommend you watch it and put all you learned into practice.



In conclusion…

These are some of the questions to ask a girl.

Note: These questions are not meant to be kinda job interview. It’s highly recommended not to ask all the questions in a single day.

Take it slowly. One at a time. Day by day.

As you get to know the girl better, the deeper your questions will be.

But in all that you do, make sure that you ask questions that will lead to a successful relationship.

One thing I’ll strongly recommend you do is to make sure you continue the conversation by asking follow-up questions and participating too.

These are just ‘beginning’ questions to ask a girl.

I want you to get to a point where you’d no longer seek for questions to ask the girl you like or love.

You should know by then the kind of questions that will interest her and bubble her heart and the ones that would be condescending downright rude.

Now it’s your turn.

Comment below the most interesting question you’d like to ask a girl or as a girl, comment on the question(s) you’d like a guy to ask you.

Further Reading:

17 Love Letters For Him From the Heart

How Do You Know if a Girl Likes You

101 Open When Letter Ideas [The Only List You’ll Need]

Top 5 Best Pheromones Colognes for Men