Comprehensive Questions to Ask a Girl (In all categories)
Good Starter Questions
First, let’s start with common questions you can ask a girl.
1) What’s your favorite social media platform and why?
Asking someone about their favorite social media platform and why they prefer it can serve multiple purposes:
Understanding their online presence: It allows you to gain insight into their preferred social media platforms, which can give you an idea of where they spend their time online and how they engage with others. It can help you understand their digital habits and interests.
Shared experiences: If you are active on the same platform or have experience with it, discussing their favorite social media platform can create a common ground for conversation. You can exchange opinions, discuss features, or even share funny or interesting content you’ve come across.
Personal preferences: The question provides an opportunity for the person to express their personal preferences and explain why they favor a specific platform. Their response can reveal aspects of their personality, interests, or values that are reflected in their choice.
Further discussion topics: Their favorite social media platform can lead to discussions about various related topics such as the types of content they enjoy, the communities they engage with, or the role of social media in their lives. It can provide a starting point for deeper conversations about online experiences, privacy concerns, or the impact of social media on society.
2) What is your favorite book?
The good old favorite question! You can’t go wrong with this. Talk about the books she read growing up and the ones that influenced her the most.
Ask her if she has any favorites.
Why does she like a book?
You can follow up with her favorite characters from books she most identifies with.
Answers to these questions will reveal a whole lot about the girl.
To get a conversation to flow naturally, do not overthink. Speak your mind and listen carefully when the girl speaks. You can even ask her if she is allergic to any food or if she finds a specific dish unpalatable.
These exciting tidbits offer us a peek into another person’s life and her likes and dislikes.
7) Who has been your best friend from childhood? How did you meet? Are you still in touch?
It is often said that friends are for life. While that is not quite the reality, there are, however, few friends who remain with us throughout our lifetime.
Best friends are rare gems who will always be a part of our life and have influenced us a lot. It is a special relationship, and we share special moments with them.
Getting her to share those special memories with you is the best you can do.
Although talking about her best friend is a great idea unless she is touchy about it.
If she doesn’t want to answer it now, let her be.
She will come around once she wants to confide in and trust you.
8) Where was the last place you visited, what was it like, and what other places are on your travel list?
Traveling is fun and essential to get your bearings together in between the chaos of daily life.
Talking about foreign countries and exotic places fills us with wanderlust and is an excellent topic for conversation.
Share with her your travel plans for the future and see if the two of you have any places in common.
If you do, you can plan a vacation together.
9) What is the best and worst thing about being a girl?
This will give her a chance to give it a thought if she has not already done so and will help her learn more about herself.
On the other hand, you get to know what she treasures.
10) Do you have any special skills no one knows about?
This is an interesting question that brings out the best in a girl.
Many of us have certain unique talents that we keep to ourselves, hidden away from the rest of the world.
She may have some unusual talents as well. Prod her about any weird skill she might have picked up over the years.
More often than not, we shy away from showing such unconventional skills, but given the right opportunity, we let ourselves out.
11) Can you tell me about an embarrassing moment you had?
Even though some girls may not want to answer such questions, most will find it amusing and often tell you about an embarrassing situation.
We all have faced such situations and promptly moved on by leaving such incidents behind us.
It is a great way to remember such an incident and share some casual laughs after a long time.
12) Do you have any unnatural fears?
Talking about unnatural fears may not be the best idea; however, if a girl shares her fears with you openly, then it only shows her courage.
Upon knowing her fear, you can help her face it and overcome it.
Sometimes we need a guiding hand to help us cross a wobbly bridge. Be that guiding hand, and don’t let go.
Also, assure her you will not play a prank on her once you know about her fear.
13) What are some of your strengths? What aspects of your personality do you think to need improvement?
These deep questions require a great deal of courage and honesty to answer.
Talking with each other about your strengths helps you to understand each other better.
You can now decide if she is the girl for you. She, too, can determine if you are the kind of guy she is looking for.
When talking about her weaknesses, try to be compassionate and helpful towards her instead of judging her.
Words of kindness and encouragement can help her overcome her shortcomings, and you, too, can gain the same way.
14) Is there a particular memory that you keep going back to? Why?
This question is even more personal and delves deep into her psyche.
Every one of us holds our memories very dear and near.
There are specific memories, however, that we hold closer and dearer than the rest.
Getting a girl to talk about a memory she keeps remembering is asking a lot from her. But she will be willing to open up if your approach is encouraging and shows genuine care rather than pure curiosity.
Share your memories, too; hours will pass you by without your notice.
15) What part of your culture are you proud of? And what part of it do you detest?
One might say that personal questions are the norm of this article. Personal questions are the best way to go when trying to get to know a girl better.
Not only are you asking questions about her culture but also about her opinion of it.
This way, you get to know where the girl comes from and what her people are like.
The social festivities she takes part in, the religion she follows, and the customs she follows.
Once you get to know the initial details delve deeper and ask for her opinion on the customs of her culture.
Such debates on social and cultural issues provide food for thought and reveal how a person thinks.
17) Could you narrate a funny incident that still brings a smile to your face?
Going down memory lane is tricky, as one never knows what one might stumble upon.
Funny memories, though, hold a special place in our hearts.
Ask her to narrate the incident vividly and listen intently.
Such incidents are a source of laughter many years later and let her re-live the moment again.
As the question subtly points out, the incident will bring a smile to her face and yours, too, hopefully. Remembering funny incidents will lighten up the mood of the conversation.
18) Who was the worst guest you ever had at your house?
We all have some bad experiences with certain guests at our house.
While such incidents might not have been funny when they happened, they are hilarious when recounted after several years after we have moved on.
It is good to look back at your past and extract some comedy from it.
19) If you could replace ‘Hello’ as a greeting while answering the phone, what word would you use?
Questions like this flow your creative juices and turn a boring conversation head-on.
Watch her as she scratches her head to devise words to replace ‘Hello.’
As creatures of habit, we often cannot shed conventional practices instead of unconventional ones.
Have fun watching her try her best to find the right word for the situation.
The results are sure to be hilarious.
20) What annoys you the most?
This question is a goldmine!
We are easily annoyed by many little things in our day-to-day lives.
Sharing such details with another person can result in comic outcomes.
Be amazed by the little things that get on her nerve.
This topic provides for loads of fun later on and if you have known her for quite some time now, then use the knowledge to the best of your ability to get to know her when the occasion presents itself.
Do not, however, cross the line!
21) Name a few changes that you think should be made to your country’s education system?
There is so much to talk about when it comes to the running of a country among them, perhaps none is as widely talked about as the country’s education system.
Get her opinion on the current education system, what she thinks is not working, and how it can be improved.
These are basic social things we should be aware of as citizens, and debate on such issues is great to keep a conversation running.
22) What period in history had the best fashion?
Girls are naturally towards anything associated with fashion. Most girls do indeed have a keen eye for fashion.
Fashion has undergone dynamic changes throughout history, and there are few things as exciting as getting a girl’s take on the history of fashion.
23) What superpower would you like to have? How are you going to use it?
I am going to sum it up by going fictional. Superpowers are what everyone wants.
It will be interesting to know what power she would like.
Much more fascinating to know will be how she will put it to use for the greater good, or will she?
24) Comfort or Trend? Choose.
With this one, you get to know her opinion on one of the more essential facets of a girl’s life- fashion.
25) What is an accessory for all occasions?
Another question about one of her many strong suits (pun involuntarily intended) tells you about her likes and choices.
26) What is your best dress style?
Comfort dresses are mostly simple and rarely extravagant, whether a boy or a girl.
If not so, run faster than you can.
27) Long walks or Long drives?
A long drive sounds better than a long walk only when someone else is driving.
If she prefers walking to driving, ask her out on a trek.
28) Where would you like to go if you are traveling alone?
Contrary to popular belief, women are more than capable of solo travel.
Don’t presume otherwise! Suggest a destination that may appeal to her.
29) Which woman motivates you the most?
Behind every successful woman is another woman inspiring her.
Who is that woman in her life?
It doesn’t have to be famous.
Maybe her mother or grandmother inspires her. Tell her about the woman who inspires you too.
30) What are the three qualities you look for in a man?
Ah! The golden question.
Listen carefully and behave accordingly.
31) What are the three qualities you look for in a woman?
Listen even more carefully! This speaks volumes about the girl.
32) The first thing you notice on a date?
If you are planning to ask her on a date, this is where you pay attention.
Brush, shave, shower, and put on your best attitude, is all we can say.
She will tell you the rest.
33) What is the most relaxing spot in your house?
The roof seems to be popular.
It may even be her room. Important to know for the future.
34) How do you spend your time alone?
This allows her to open up about what she does in her private time. Never invade someone’s alone time. Help her spend it better instead.
35) What five things are on your bucket list?
A good chance to find things in common. You can also help her take a few off the list.
36) What are your ambitions in life?
Talking about her goals will lead you to understand what she wants from life. It will also reveal how driven she is.
37) Beach, Forrest, Hill, or Countryside? Where do you feel the most peaceful?
A multiple-choice question that tells you if she likes the same destination as you like.
38) Do looks matter?
To some, it does. To others, it is trivial. Which group does she belong to? Very important to know.
39) Do you prefer a routine to spontaneity?
Does she plan everything?
Does she go with the flow?
In the words of Heath Ledger’s Joker, is she “a schemer” or “a dog chasing a car”?
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Sitting besides a beautiful girl and not knowing what to say is almost like a nightmare; frankly, we have all been there.
You are often left with a weird toothy grin and no words, which put her off.
This is why we are here to help you with a list of 23 questions to get you talking to that pretty girl who freezes your mind, twists your tongue, and renders you momentarily speechless.
Read on to become a confident ice-breaker.
1) Sunrise or Sunset, which one do you like the most?
This a simple question to start with. It allows her to think.
An uncommon way to start a conversation with a girl you don’t know yet, or any person for that matter.
2) Describe your dream vacation?
We all have a dream vacation plan, and so does she. Share yours, too, as one can never tell where this question may lead you.
3) Which season do you eagerly wait for every year?
Quite a common question to ask but one that can spark a nice conversation. You also get to know her preference.
4) What activities or hobbies do you love the most?
Our hobbies are personal and define how we are as people. What better way to know her?
5) Do you follow current affairs and international news?
Is she aware? Are you?
6) Are you into any sport?
This might make or break a conversation. Suppose she follows the sport, then good for you. Carry the conversation forward by asking her what sports she is into and if she plays any. It may lead to a ‘play date.’
7) What is your favorite time of the day?
We all have that time of the day we love the most. A pleasant way to start a conversation.
8) Do you have a favorite time of the year?
One question leads to another and then to another. A wider variation of the previous question. Effective nonetheless.
9) What kind of festival attracts you?
Carnivals? Food festivals? Music festivals? Or traditional ones? So many to choose from, and you may find something in common.
10) Have you ever been to another country? Why? Also, tell me about your experience there.
If she hasn’t been to any, ask her what country she has always wished to visit.
11) Do you believe in God?
A fundamental question that addresses her beliefs. It also tells you if she is on the same page as you regarding the God dilemma.
12) Can you describe your first real adventure?
This lets her open up about her past and allows you to share your adventure stories with her. There are not many better ways to connect unless either of you is a couch potato.
13) What was your first proper job?
First jobs are always memorable. It is the first real responsibility that one has to shoulder. You can also ask many other related questions.
14) If tomorrow is your last day on earth, how do you plan to spend it?
A rather thought-provoking question that addresses one of your deepest fears- nonexistence.
So much to do and so many places to go, yet this is a question that may surprise you with a simple answer.
15) What is the best gift you ever received?
Now that you know, try to better it if possible.
16) What is the best gift you have ever given to someone?
Tells you about the kind of person she is.
17) What are your religious beliefs?
To each their own. A vital question, however, is to avoid conflict later on.
18) What was the last movie that you watched and enjoyed?
So much to talk about here. This may lead to long conversations, and unless you have better plans, this is what you are after.
19) If you could have a superpower which one would you choose and why?
Humans crave power. Superpowers are better. A tad unrealistic, yet a good conversation starter.
20) What is the best advice you have received?
A piece of free advice is always solicited, plus you get to know what matters to her. Share one you received with her.
21) What is the worst job you have ever had? Why?
Complaining feels good.
Complaining to a companion, Better.
22) If you had the chance to go on a road trip with a famous personality, where would you go, and who would you take with you?
A fun question that gets her thinking and talking too.
23) Beauty or Brains? Which appeals more to you?
Speaks a lot about the girl you want to go out with.
24) How complex is your family history?
She might not know much about her family history, and your question could push her to fill the empty spaces.
25) What can you do so well even with your eyes closed?
Watching her do it will be fun, and judging for yourself, how good she is at it.
26) Was there a special event or circumstance around your name?
Many people are given names that represent something significant.
It will be interesting to find out the story behind her name.
27) What word comes to mind when you look at my face?
You should have a thick skin before asking this, as the word may not be so flattering.
28) Do you think you will be a helicopter mom?
She’ll most probably go for being a fun mom.
Just smile like you don’t know how that wish quickly disappears when the kids start coming.
29) What is your biggest recipe disaster in the kitchen?
Her answer will let you know if you should flee from any offer of a cooking date.
30) How much money do you think you’ll need to live a good life?
She may have a very high taste.
As long as she is not hoping to get it all off you, it’s all good.
31) Do you always have a Plan B?
You will discover if you will be expected to save the situation when her only plan hits the rocks.
32) What is that one thing you need that you think will complete you?
How nice it will be if she says you are that thing that completes her.
Be ready to hear some unrealistic thoughts too.
33) Which do you always listen to, your heart or mind?
She can be all about logic or sentiment.
34) What’s the biggest prank you have played on a friend?
Be prepared to deal with her naughty side.
Don’t let her idea of a prank shock you.
35) Would you take a brain transplant from a robot?
She might think you are nuts at first.
But it’s okay to ask a question that doesn’t make much sense but still comes across as interesting.
36) Who do you tend to take sides with within a movie, the hero or villain?
She might have a dark side that makes her side with the villain or fantasize about being swept off her feet by a superhero.
37) What popular trend do you find annoying?
You can have an interesting time discussing the trend and what makes it annoying.
38) What food will you never eat, even when starving?
It is a cute question, so you never offer her that food.
39) What would it look like if you could paint a picture of heaven?
Her picture of heaven might be so different from the common view and get you thinking of new possibilities.
40) Can you tell me five things at the top of your bucket list?
You can work together to achieve some of the things she mentions.
41) Would you give up your job to follow your true dream?
You can determine if she is impulsive, can start anew anytime, or is a deliberate person who weighs their decisions more seriously.
42) Who was the last person that saw you cry?
This question will help you discover how willing she is to be vulnerable in front of other people.
43) Can you tell me about the most annoying person in your workplace?
This is a great way to learn of her pet peeves and have a good laugh.
44) Do you follow health fads or diets?
You will know not to offer her sizzling bacon when she is a vegan.
45) Would you rather live in ignorance about your loved ones’ vices or you will like to know?
Ignorance might be bliss for her or not.
You can decide what to do if you find yourself armed with information that may hurt her.
46) Have you ever been forced to perform a task and ended up enjoying it?
It will be interesting to discuss the reasons behind her initial reluctance.
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