Here, we are not talking about spilling your guts to a guy and telling him your whole life story.
He might just end up stifling a yawn!
Tell him your hopes, dreams, and goals, not in long stories, where he doesn’t get a show in, but where he learns about you.
11) Be spontaneous
He will love it if you are perceptive and show up at his place carrying pizza, wings, and beer to cheer him up, or if he is super-busy, for example.
He will appreciate your thoughtfulness.
Often, being very predictable where he would know that you wouldn’t pitch up at his place can start to get a bit boring.
When you continuously surprise him, it will keep him fascinated and on his toes.
12) Be busy
Have your own life!
Men find a woman who is busy doing her own things very attractive.
In other words, you both give each other their space!
It means that you don’t need others around you to help you operate and function properly.
When you have your own hobbies, activities, and events, it means you like him for who is, not because you need a crutch to lean on.
13) Be supportive of his interests
No matter what his hobbies are, whether it is building a cardboard airplane and watching it fly off the nearest hill, he will love it if you are cheering by his side.
Men who feel supported and admired for their hobbies feel that they can conquer the world!
A scientific study showed that people enjoy people to asking questions, particularly follow-up questions.
Follow-up questions show that you listened and were interested.
Your guy will love that about you too, so ask questions about his interests and support him in his hobbies.
14) Make him feel manly
A man gets driven wild about a woman who makes him feel confident and good about himself – when she makes him feel like he is “the man” – he is wanted.
You might be wondering just do you make a guy feel manly, but it’s not as hard as you think.
The best ways are the easiest, like asking him for help with fixing something.
Or when you are at the supermarket and your bag is extra heavy, and he carries it for you.
Don’t forget to show him how you appreciate that strong manly help!
Yes, of course, a guy likes an independent woman, but when you show him how you need a hand sometimes, he will love it, like you are not someone who wears pants!
15) Now and then you should be unavailable to him
Some men hate it if a woman is unavailable to them.
They get suspicious, as do women, but it can work pretty well.
What you have to do is to have some times when you are not available to him.
That will confuse him a bit, as he had all your attention in the beginning.
But that can get boring for a guy, and occasionally being unavailable at times, like hanging out with your friends instead of with him will make him miss you and maybe get a bit jealous!
It also means you are not needy, that you have your own life that is important to you, and which are attractive qualities for a guy in a woman.
It makes him try harder to get you.
16) You’re a very hot number in bed and drive him wild!
It’s no secret and even research will tell you that a good sex life contributes to a better relationship.
Some studies show it contributes to good health too.
If you make your guy go crazy for you in bed, he will want to keep you.
It might sound logical because we know guys love sex, but to make him go crazy in bed is not every woman’s knack; it’s where many women feel insecure.
Want to know some good tips that turn guys on?
When you say his name
When you fulfill his fantasy to dominate you
When you are willing to try new things and are open-minded about it
Want to know some more exciting things?
Read this article to find out what really turns men on and what they often don’t tell a woman.
17) Be unpredictable
Being predictable is nice to a certain extent because then you know where you stand, right?
But sometimes, for some, predictability can also start to cause frustration and boredom, something that no couple wants.
Every now and then, though, if you can interrupt the daily routine or the monthly routine and change things around a bit, you bring a bit of spice into the relationship.
Many men get scared that women will stop making any effort after they get married.
It’s good to shake things up every now and then to bring in some excitement and fun.
18) Do you really listen when he talks or are you thinking of the next thing to say?
These days, it is hard to find a good listener.
Everyone wants to have their say, and most people want to only talk about themselves.
When your guy is talking to you about his family for instance, do you really listen?
Are you able to answer him on what he has just said, or are you already thinking of something else to tell him about you?
Maybe you were only half-listening as you paint your nails or plan your week?
When you do put your energy into hearing and listening to a guy, he will truly appreciate that, it shows him you care.
19) Laugh and the whole world laughs with you, and him
Have you ever seen your girlfriend scowl at her boyfriend or husband when he tells a joke at a party?
Either she is embarrassed that people will look at her in pity if they don’t find it funny.
Or else she doesn’t like the attention he gets when it really should be on her!
Her boyfriend or husband looks crushed that she doesn’t find him funny.
You don’t have to fakely laugh at all his jokes but if he does say enjoyable funny stuff, support him and be proud of him – that will make him very drawn to you.
20) Do you have good chats with him that are sometimes serious and intellectual?
A smart woman is hot; one with an intellectual opinion on newsy topics.
You shouldn’t be shy about expressing an opinion, even if it is an opposing opinion.
If you are not like a puppet that says yes and no to being in the right camp, then you are much more interesting and fascinating.
Find topics that you and he can thrive on discussing, not arguing about.
21) Good morals are excellent
Good morals are a necessity if you want a guy’s love.
Who wants to get involved with someone whom you can’t trust?
And if a guy can’t trust you, how can you hope that he will fall in love with you?
Men like strong women who are not pushovers, who behave maturely and wisely towards them, as in respectful of him, just as you would expect the same from him.
Frequently Asked Questions (FAQs)
What am I to do if the guy I am interested in just ignores my text messages and me in general?
Either he is in a committed relationship already, or he is just not into you.
Don’t bother chasing after him or messaging him anymore if you don’t get responses.
There are other nice guys out there that will respond to you, even more so when you have read our 21 tips on ways to get a guy attracted to you.
A guy told me he loves me and I love him too, but although he says it, he is always with his friends. Does he really love me?
If you are very young, both of you, he might mean it but doesn’t have the confidence to walk away from his friends and be with a girl.
But if he is an older guy, there is no excuse if he says he loves you but spends all his time with his friends.
Don’t waste your time on such a selfish guy. It doesn’t look like he is willing to change for you. He might just be saying he “loves” you as a friend.
If he hasn’t texted me yet, is it OK for me to text him or call him?
In this modern-day and age, if you really like a guy, there is no reason why you shouldn’t be the one to make the first contact.
It feels to me like we are in a relationship, doing everything couples do, and yet he says he doesn’t want a girlfriend, but still treats me like one. Should I stay with him?
It seems like he is just taking you for granted.
If you want your relationship to have a title, tell him you want a boyfriend.
If he won’t accept that, then you will have to decide whether you are going to find someone else, or be happy to accept that.
Capturing a guy’s attention and heart, and keeping it is not always the easiest of tasks.
There are so many distractions around, so many different ways to meet people, and so many attractive invitations – it’s not that easy anymore to meet and keep a guy’s attention on you!
Sometimes it’s difficult to even know what a guy wants and what holds his attention these days.
But although guys have many complex qualities, what they do find attractive in women are, of course, their appearances.
But that won’t cut it entirely with a guy at all!
When he finds out what qualities you have from the tips we have given you, he will stop right there in his tracks to find out more about you, you will have the qualities that draw a guy to a girl and he will want that in his life and in his future!
That’s why we’ve given you these helpful tips to make a man do a double-take and want to get to know you more.
Maybe you were in a long-term relationship that came to an end.
Maybe you didn’t know about all these tips, and you realize now that you never appreciated your guy fully, never complimented him or supported him – maybe you were too needy.
But now you have a chance again to win over that guy you have your eye on and keep him holding on.
If he’s the right guy for you, you are going to get wonderful results, because –
“Somewhere between all your laughs, long talks, stupid little fights, and all your lame jokes … he fell in love ’’