How to tell if a girl likes you – 9 of the more common signs…
Her friends and family know about you: When a girl is interested in you she is not shy about telling her friends and family about you.
If she can’t make a date, she will try and schedule another date so that you do still go out; in other words, she makes herself available to you.
If you are chatting to her in person or by text, she will enjoy chatting to you; not just brief little replies, or even no replies. She will answer you more expansively and pick up your calls, asking questions as well.
She will boost your ego with compliments, smiling as you speak, maybe even sending you some selfies. If someone doesn’t like you, you will soon feel the ‘chill’ in the air.
She has inviting body language: You will notice that she turns her entire body to you when she’s speaking. And if she’s into you, she won’t move away when you move closer to her or kind of shrug your hand off when you put your arm around her. Don’t overdo it though, otherwise, it can get awkward.
If she likes you she will remember things you tell her.
Sometimes, you might catch her staring at you, looking at your subconsciously or consciously
She will make time for youeven if her schedule is busy
She lets you know she’s single.
By this time you might have gathered whether the girl you like likes you or not.
If you believe that she likes you and she all smiles when you are together, now is the time to pluck up the courage to ask her if she likes you!
So how do you get her to say those magic words that she likes you?
1) You can tell her straight out how you feel about her…
…and she might not be able to resist telling you how she feels too.
You might have given her subtle hints that you like her but she still hasn’t said she likes you yet.
Maybe it’s time to be straight out blunt and tell her how you feel.
Girls like it when you are honest with them.
So when you make that first move, it will make her feel much more comfortable and it might cause her to admit she likes you too.
2) You can also choose to ask her outright if she likes you.
But don’t just blurt it out like catching her by surprise so that she feels uncomfortable.
Just tell her at a good time how you feel, asking her at that very moment if she feels the same way about you.
You can let her know that from her actions you feel that she likes you, and now, you would like to know for sure.
How’s about something like this?…
…“When we spend time together, talking, I feel and can see we have a great connection. I’ve wanted to ask you if you have feelings for me because I have feelings for you.”
3) You could invite her out on a date…
…because that is telling her you like her in any case.
If she agrees, it is no doubt because she likes you too.
Being out on a date in a nice setting at a good time, you could tell her about your feelings for her, that you like her, and does she like you enough to go on another date.
In asking her if she likes you, remember…
Don’t put pressure on her to say something you want to hear. Then she might say something she doesn’t mean. You might really be into her, but that doesn’t mean that she is into you in the same way. If you have told her that you really like her and she tells you she doesn’t feel the same way, you will have to respect her feelings.
Don’t get upset with her or yell at her because she said no. But saying no, a girl is telling you she doesn’t like you back. If you can’t bear to be “only friends” with her, you could answer by saying, “I understand. Thanks for being honest with me.” Then leave it like that and move on.
If you believe you can still get her to like you or you like her so much that you want to still be friends with her, you could say something like, “I understand. I still think that you’re an amazing person, and I’d still like to be friends.” You will be able to see where it goes from there.
If you want to hear a girl tell her she likes you, because your intention is to date her, then you need to…
1) Spend time with her
It’s fun hanging out with friends, but you won’t be able to make a personal connection with her that way.
Have some time with just the two of you so you can get some meaningful conversations going between the two of you to get to know each other one-on-one.
That means finding out about her life, her dreams, her goals, her family, and her interests.
If she really likes you she will soon learn to open up to you about her feelings for you.
2) Do fun things together…
…because she will remember you for these times.
You can also ask her straight out what she likes to do for fun and then do those things with her.
She will soon figure how much she enjoys hanging out with you and then be more comfortable admitting she likes you too.
When you create enjoyable memories together, you are continuously reminding someone that you enjoy spending time with them.
You might get your answer as to how much a girl likes you without even asking her, just by her body language.
If she is a shy kind of girl who just can’t bring herself to tell you she likes you, her body language will show you.
If she pays you a lot of attention to everything you say, that’s a good sign she likes you.
3) Does she play with her hair quite a bit when she is with you?…
Girls like to twirl their hair and run their hands through it like they’ve seen the sexy movie stars do.
She will do this in a flirty way around you – it’s a good sign she likes you.
Don’t get confused though when she just puts her hair up into a ponytail when it gets in her way!
If she stays around you and finds a few reasons to touch you, like grabbing your arm if you make her laugh, etc. she is into you.
All these flirtatious things are signs she really likes you.
If you find out that she has told her friends and family about you then she probably likes you; they probably know as much about you as she does!
An important tip to remember when you ask a girl if she likes you
Don’t ever feel pressured to be something or someone you are not so you can impress her.
If she does like you, she will come out with it when she is ready.
But if she were to tell you that she doesn’t like you in a romantic way, then you would need to give her space.
It is her choice whether or not she likes you; you can never force or demand someone to like you.
Wait a few months before asking her again without being embarrassed.
If you show nervousness and no confidence while doing it, she might end up saying no again.
Frequently Asked Questions (FAQs)
Is it OK to ask a girl right out if she likes you?
Yes, you can, and we have shown you ways in our articles.
If you tell her outright that you do have feelings for her, it might cause her to tell you she likes you too without you even having to ask her.
If you do ask tell her about your feelings for her, ask her directly then if she feels the same for you.
How can I tell a girl is more using me than she really likes me?
She only texts you to fill her boredom.
Talks flirty or special to other guys also.
She doesn’t go near you in public and if you go up to her in public, she turns away.
She talks to you but only to make other guys jealous.
Goes out with you but only because she has nothing better to do.
She uses you for her benefit, like saying stuff like “You’ll do anything for me right?”
Doesn’t even ask or know when your birthday is.
She asks you for things but leaves you when she gets them.
If her friends ask who you are, she doesn’t answer, or just says “some guy.”
Nobody in her circles such as her family and friends knows anything about you.
There's a girl who says she likes me but she doesn’t want a relationship with me. What does that mean?
Exactly that; that she does like you, but maybe not enough.
Maybe she is not ready to get into a relationship with you – she has got a lot on her plate to deal with right now. But if you are still really interested in her, then you just have to hear what she says and just stay a friend, watching how it all pans out.
Remember not to push her for a relationship because that could really make you lose any chance you ever did have.
What happens when a girl does tell a guy she likes him?
If a guy has been waiting for a girl to like him and she does, if he reacts by being all nervous, shy, and insecure, with self-doubt, she will quickly lose her interest and attraction for him.
Because what all women want in men is confidence, period.
Liking someone new and then starting to fall for them can be pretty exciting times, but also kind of nerve-wracking.
You don’t want to ruin anything even before it’s got off to a really good start.
When a guy tells a girl he likes her a lot, he expects her to answer in the same vein.
Then he gets nervous and worried, full of self-doubt, waiting anxiously for her to say the same words back.
He doesn’t know how he would behave if you were to say no!
Lots of girls won’t even reveal their feelings to a guy until he has revealed his feelings to her first!
Getting a girl to admit that she likes you before you have told her you like her can be tricky, particularly if you yourself aren’t ready to tell her you like her.
But if you treat a girl well, you flirt with her, and you are honest about your feelings with her, these are all the best ways to gain her confidence so she feels free to tell you she likes you.
Dating is tough, it requires effort, but if you are spending all your time trying to figure out if she likes you are not, you are going to waste time just enjoying fun times together and getting to know each other to really enable you to discover your true feelings later.
There are myriads of ways to tell if a girl is into you without her saying it and we have mentioned some in this article – here are some more.
If you are wondering if she is into you, pay attention to whether or not your girl is doing all the things mentioned.
But a real quick way to find out is to tell her you like her and then see how it goes from there!