His Secret Obsession is one of the most simplified relationship guide I've ever come across. The advice and suggestions in here are very easy to understand and follow. 


The guide is very practical and can be applied almost immediately. 


Although it's still affordable, the price can be a huge turn-off for those on a tight budget. 

Overall rating :  4.5 / 5

Read this first...

Let me tell you straight up that this is by far the most comprehensive and unbiased review you'll get on the internet because I personally reached out to James (the creator) and asked a couple of questions and also requested a free copy of his program to test and review.


...I was simply blown away by what I saw.

As you may already know, I don’t review products that I haven’t personally used and implemented so when I told you I was blown away, I meant it!

Keep reading and you’ll discover why I chose to review this powerful relationship guide...


  • How do you get your romantic dream guy to commit?
  • What’s the secret to gaining his love, attention, and devotion in the long-term?
  • Or, if you've gone through a break-up, how do you get your man to chase you again.

James BauerJames Bauer seems to have the answers to all these questions, and he’s written a really interesting and thought-provoking book to prove it.

Bauer has worked as a relationship coach for over a decade.

He’s spoken with thousands of women over that time.

By carefully studying their cases, the author claims to have discovered the secret to fulfilling, lasting relationships.

He’s learned how women can create a special love in a man for them, which leads to him sticking around for the long haul.

James Bauer’s book deals with issues that impact the happiness of millions of women around the world, including:

  • Why men lose interest in a promising relationship shortly after the excitement of the initial intimacy wears off.
  • Why a lot of men struggle to commit to a lasting and loving relationship.
  • Why some men suddenly stop communicating with their partners, whether it's a lack of conversation, no more sending texts and no chats over the phone.

This book is not for you if…

  • You already have a bought into this program
  • Not interested in getting into a SERIOUS relationship at the moment or anytime soon.
  • A lesbian
  • Looking for a cheap/free relationship program (freebiers)
  • Need an overnight success

If you’re none of the above, then keep reading…

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What I Dislike About His Secret Obsession Course

This is quite difficult for me because I couldn’t precisely pinpoint anything that I disliked about his program, but there is one little thing I’d like for James to improve on;


Although I find this course to be affordable by many, but if you're on a tight budget it could be on the high side. But I'll leave it to you though.

Truth is, if you can afford it, then go for it.

It’s well worth the price.

You’ll definitely be blown away by the tremendous value this course will bring into your life and relationship.

I believe, however, that in the near future James might hit the price down a little bit especially for those who are tight on budget.

My one cent though.

What I like About His Secret Obsession Course

Here comes the exciting part. 

There are so many things I like about this course.

So much that I don’t mind writing a 20 page book for it.

Having enrolled in the program, read the book cover to cover, and have already started applying what I learned in my relationship, I can tell you with absolute certainty that you’ll get a LOT of Bang for your buck (ONLY IF you apply what you learned).

So the following are a few things I liked;

1) The Major Secrets...

hero instinct

His Secret Obsession provides answers to questions that have baffled women since time began:

  • How do you get a man to see you in a completely different way and want you more?


  • How can you make your dream guy desire you in a way that is even beyond that initial physical attraction?

"His Secret Obsession" reveals an instinctive inner need that every man has without even knowing it.


This emotional need is far stronger than any sexual urge and, once triggered, creates a love connection that is near to impossible to break.

The secret, according to the author, is something he calls the “Hero Instinct".

Women who are successful in love know how to bring this instinct to the fore. 

Bauer explains that every man needs to feel irreplaceable—this is what drives him, and he’s drawn to any woman who makes him feel like that.

Many men have this need met outside of relationships by things like sport or work, which is why their female partners can sometimes feel like mere accessories.

Furthermore, a man needs to know that he is constantly rising to meet new challenges and to be considered successful in life.

Bauer explains how this hero instinct has three major drives:

  • The drive to accomplish something meaningful and know that his efforts are appreciated
  • The drive to provide for his family, friends, and loved ones.
  •  The drive to gain respect from his peers.

These three facets of a man’s Hero Instinct mean that he will only really want to be with a woman who can set him free to pursue meaningful success. 

She must also be able to share her needs with him, and allow him to be a provider in many different senses of the word.

Most importantly, she must respect him for being willing and able to do both these things.

2) Awaken the Hero...

part one

The author goes into detail to show how any woman can awake the hero instinct in her man, without him even being aware of it.

'No woman can make a man fall in love with her just by meeting his needs.

She must show him her own needs, so he can feel like he’s earning her love.'

Author James Bauer explains how to ask your man for help and advice.

This allows him to step into the role of provider and problem solver. 

It also triggers interactions that are non-threatening to the guy because they aren’t about the relationship.

But before you start thinking that this is all about tricking a man into falling in love with you, Bauer is absolutely clear: this is NOT a form of manipulation.

Most men and women long to experience a lasting, loving relationship; they just need different things from those relationships.

Bauer's methods do not require you pretend to be something you’re not.

Moreover, he prescribes a technique for finding common ground that men and women share and that can narrow the gap between what they both want, need, and desire.

3) Practical Advice...

practical advice

Bauer's revelations promise to help any woman build an attraction between her and her man that goes beyond the physical desires.

His research-based methods include some simple phrases that she can use in conversation or texts. 

The texts contain hidden words that trigger the Hero Instinct in the man of her dreams.


Bauer's book is full of useful instructions and training on exactly how to incorporate these words into your relationships.

He uses real-life examples of women who’ve had achieved success with his method.

Plus, he teaches interactive techniques that can create a special bond between a woman and her male partner.

'His Secret Obsession' is split into two main sections that are easy to read, and simple to apply.

Part one contains the principles and foundations every woman should understand about a man’s Hero Instinct.

The second part zones in on more specific instructions and detailed examples.

It shows how she can apply the author's methods in everyday life.

4) Rachel’s Story...

Bauer's book details the true story of a woman called “Rachel” who unwittingly gave the author the key to the secrets contained in his book.

Rachel's partner Mike had broken up with her after what she considered to have been a wonderful three-month relationship.

Devastated, Rachel turned to James Bauer. Something about what Rachel said struck a chord with Bauer.

Rachel's partner Mike had broken up with her after what she considered to have been a wonderful three-month relationship.

He began to sift through the volumes of notes he’d made from other client sessions, and gradually, he noticed a pattern.

After a period of deliberation, Bauer advised Rachel to send Mike a twelve-word text to bring out the “Hero Instinct” in him.

It worked, and Mike came back to her.

Bauer realized he was onto something and buried himself in more and more research.

The result is 'His Secret Obsession'.

5) Positive Reviews...

Bauer's masterful relationship guide has caused quite a stir on the web.

Reviewers time and again mention how helpful it’s been to their understanding of how men think and what they need in a relationship.

You can find a ton of them all over the internet including this very one you're reading

6) Zero Risk Purchase...

Bauer's guide comes with secure payment options and is available right now at a special discounted price.

Not only that, but it also comes with a 60-day success guarantee.

If you’re not happy for any reason, you can email and receive your money back.

That’s how confident the author is in his methods.

In fact, so convinced is James Bauer in the success of his methods that he will even allow you to keep the product after receiving your refund, no questions asked.

In Conclusion...

If you've always yearned to find, and keep, the man of your dreams, or if you're looking for a way to win back the man you want to marry and settle down with for the rest of your life, then you need to invest in a copy of James Bauer's, 'His Secret Obsession'.

The road to romantic happiness awaits. 

All you have to do is take the first step.

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His Secret Obsession by James Bauer – My Honest Review
What We Liked:
  • Simple to follow
  • Very practical advice
  • Already had raves of great reviews
What We Disliked:
  • A bit pricey
4.5Overall Score

Last updated on September 27th, 2019 at 12:20 am

About The Author

John Simon is a very passionate relationship enthusiast who loves to help folks start and maintain good conversations. He also enjoys assisting couples in maintaining a strong relationship and firmly believe that healthy relationships breed a better society. He has written a ton of articles and guides on building and maintaining a satisfying relationship.

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