First, you need to have a genuine interest in someone – someone that you usually ask questions to and ask how their daily life is going. Checking in on them is a fantastic way of just brightening their day.
Then you need to be consistent and reliable with your girlfriend, not keeping her wondering if you are losing interest or whatever. Lots of things in life call for your attention and it can so easily make communication abrupt sometimes, particularly with texts. Just taking the time with some special thoughtful words will be very meaningful for your girlfriend, be she close by or far away.
Tell her how much you miss her. There are some times when the conversation might have to go beyond texting though, and that might require a meet-up, or a coffee or lunch.
Send her amusing videos or soft music to lull her to sleep at night when you are separated by even just one night apart. She will love a few laughs from you at the end of her day to lighten her mood and look forward to the next day thinking of you!
171 Best Goodnight Text Messages For Her
If you are not in a relationship, but you do like a girl, these are good ones:
1. “Hey! Just checking on you, I know you had a big day today.”
2. “I know we haven’t had a chance to chat lately, but I hope you’ve had a great day.”
3. “Try to get some rest tonight.”
4. “Call me in the morning.”
5. “I know today was a busy one. We’ll talk tomorrow.”
If you are interested in more than just a friendship though
6. “I can’t wait to talk to you tomorrow.”
7. “You’re always on my mind at the beginning and end of each day.”
8. “Texting to say good night because I’ve been thinking of you all day.”
9. “Going through old pics and found this one of us. We would make a cute couple.”
10. “I’m tired of spending my nights without you.”
11. “Sleep well, my love.”
12. “Good night to the love of my life. I hope that you sleep well and have lovely dreams.”
13. “It feels so amazing knowing that you are mine. Goodnight and sleep tight my love.”
14. “The stars at night can’t compare to your beauty. I can’t wait to wake up next to you every day and
spend the rest of my life with you.”
15. “Can’t stop thinking about you, my love. I hope you know how truly special you are. Good night, my princess.”
16. “Sending you love and sweet dreams!”
17. “Good night my love. I hope I get to see you in my dreams tonight”
18. “Good night darling.”
19. “I hope you’re dreaming of beautiful things just like you. Good night love.”
20. “Good night my angel.”
21. “I hope you have dreams as beautiful as you are.”
22. “Good night my queen.”
23. “The brightness of the day is not strong as the brightness that you carry. Goodnight love!”
24. “I love you – Good night to the best girlfriend in the world.”
25. “Goodnight sweetheart.”
26. “Look up to the sky and see how the stars are dancing and showcasing my deepest love for you. Good night.”
27. “Goodnight! I love you darling”
28. “Goodnight honey. I hope you have the loveliest dreams.”
29. “Good night to the most beautiful woman in the world.”
30. “You brighten my world.”
31. “I need no assurance of our love because I feel it deep in my soul.”
32. “Your beauty can’t be hidden.”
33. “Building a relationship like ours is creating a rare gem called love.”
34. “We all love, but true love is one in a million. I’m so grateful to have you.”
35. “I love you like roses love rain, like walking together down memory lane. Sleep tight darling.”
36. “Life with you is everlasting joy.”
37. “You know you’re in love when you can’t fall asleep because reality is finally better than your dreams.” –
38. “There’s no one else I’d rather spend the rest of my life with.”
39. “When it comes to our love, the beauty can’t be hidden.”
40. “Love is composed of a single soul inhabiting two bodies.” – Aristotle
41. “You’re the love of my life. Thank you for being you.”
42. “My biggest fear is losing you.”
43. “Close your eyes, fall in love, stay there.” – Rumi
44. “I looked into your eyes and found my favorite color.”
45. “I have the deepest love for you.”
46. “I’m happy not just because I am in love, but because it is with you.” – Author unknown
47. “Life feels incomplete without you.”
48. “I hope that you have wonderful dreams and a wonderful night.”
49. “I hope you get a good night’s sleep!”
50. “May your dreams be kind tonight.”
51. “I hope your night is filled with thoughts of good luck and pleasant dreams.”
52. “Night sweet girl.”
53. “Hey love. Wishing you were here by my side. Good night, sleep tight.”
54. “Good night good soul.”
55. “Blankets are warm, pleasant dreams, darling.”
56. “You’re dreaming of beautiful treasure, night dear.”
57. “I wish you a peaceful slumber.”
58. “Relax and unwind, my love.”
59. “Wishing you the sweetest sleep.”
60. “Close your eyes, love, rest easy.”
61. “Without you, I feel incomplete; sweet dreams, my love.”
62. “As you drift off to sleep, remember that you’re special to me.”
63. “Hey beautiful girl, I hope you have a peaceful sleep.”
64. “The night sky reminds me of your beautiful shine.”
65. “The stars don’t twinkle at night like you do, gorgeous girl.”
66. “No matter how soft your blankets are, they’re not as special as you are to me!”
67. “My night is sweet with thoughts of you. Sweet dreams!”
What about something amusing?
68. “If you feel like you are ever alone, just knowing that I am always here to disturb you!”
69. “I hope you enjoy this night’s version of our planet’s semi-rotation.”
70. “Good night! May you be safe from the ghosts under your bed!”
71. Good night and sleep well! Hope you have dreams as sweet as I am!
72. Now 4.7 million people are going to sleep, 2.5 million are dreaming, 1.3 million are watching TV/ But one cute hearties reading my sweet Jokes, good night!
73. “The sun is red, the sky is blue, and I cannot stay happy, without disturbing you. Goodnight my love.”
74. “Good night sweetheart! Don’t look at the window at night. Also, don’t look under the bed. There may be something! Just kidding! Have a sweet dream my love!”
75. “If you feel lonely don’t worry. I am here to disturb you all the time. Now sleep well. Good night dear. Have a wonderful scary dream!”
76. “The quietness of this beautiful night reminds me of you. How can I sleep peacefully at this night without disturbing you?”
77. “You’ve seen enough of the cruel world so better close your eyes already.”
78. “Let the most beautiful dream come to you tonight, Let the sweetest person come in your dream tonight but don’t make it a habit, because I’m not free every night, Good Night!”
79. “Hey, I just had a phone call from your bed because it could not reach you. Please contact your cold bed and the lonely pillows right now! And sleep tight!”
80. “The only way I can guarantee you a sweet dream is by dreaming about me. So, what are you waiting for? Sleep tight!”
81. “Send me a text if nightmare kicks in and you cannot sleep at night. I will be your guardian angel no worries. Have a great time of sleep, dear.”
82. “Nothing can take your valuable place in my life except a good night’s sleep. I am off to it; you do that too. Love ya. Sweet dreams.”
83. “Do you know why we close our eyes – When we pray, when we cry, when we dream? – Because the most beautiful things in life are unseen and felt only by the heart. Goodnight my love.”
84. “Welcome to Sweet Dreams airlines. We’ll be shortly arriving at Dreamland. Fasten blankets, puff the pillow, close your eyes and get ready to doze off! Good Night!”
85. “Hey you, yes you darling, holding the phone. You are asleep? No? Ok, good, cos I want to say goodnight before your eyelashes hug each other tightly.”
86. “Oops! Ouch, I fell from the bed trying to reach my phone just to say sweet dreams to you. Good nightand Sleep tight.”
87. “Before you fall asleep, do not forget to say thank you for everything that you have right now, specifically, for me. Goodnight!”
88. “I would say “good” night, but it’s actually a bad night when you are not laying here with me. Sleep well nonetheless.”
89. “Goodnight! Call me if you see any ghosts!”
90. “Goodnight my sweetest, I’ll be drooling and dreaming and thinking about you (but probably mostly drooling).”
91. “Hey…hey you, the cute one on the phone! Goodnight.”
Flirty good night texts
92. “Before you go to sleep, I just want to tell you how sweet you are.”
93. “Goodnight to you, and your beautiful existence.”
94. “I hope that you will be dreaming about me tonight — I will absolutely be dreaming about you.”
95. “Goodnight. My mouth hurts from smiling because of you.”
96. “I’m going to have trouble sleeping tonight. My bed is just more comfortable with you in it.”
97. “My bed is feeling really big tonight, especially for just me. Just saying!”
98. “Tonight I’m really missing my little spoon
99. “I will be dreaming about somebody tonight …. want to guess who?”
100. “If you’re having trouble sleeping tonight, just know that I am only a text or a phone call away.”
101. “I bet you look really cute while you’re sleeping.”
102. “I’m just about sleep, but I just wanted to make sure that you know that I’m thinking of you.”
103. “I think you’re probably asleep, but I want the first thing that you see in the morning to be this: I love you.”
104. “It’s so hard to fall asleep when I am not there to give you a goodnight kiss.”
105. “I cherish you. You are so lovely and charming.”
106. “One hundred hearts would not be enough to carry all of the love I feel for you.”
107. “Goodnight. Meeting you was the best day of my entire life.”
108. “Goodnight to the love of my life, I love the way you love me.”
109. “There is no other way to say it. I love you. Good night.”
110. “Climbing into bed with you is the best thing in the world.”
111. “A day spent cuddling with you would be a day well spent.”
112. “Sweet dreams to the absolute love of my life, I hope you have a sleep as wonderful as you are.”
113. “Every day I thank my lucky stars that I ended up with you. Goodnight baby.”
114. “Just popping in to tell you to have a lovely night, my dear. I’ll be right here to speak with you in the
115. “I love you more than the moon and stars. Sleep well, my muse.”
116. “Goodnight to my baby. You are very special to me.”
117. “Goodnight my beautiful princess, I hope you have a relaxing sleep.”
118. “I have to confess, every time I close my eyes. I see your beautiful face. It’s a wonderful way to fall asleep.”
119. “To the prettiest woman I know – I hope that you are able to rest your body and your mind today. Sleep well.”
120. “I can’t fall asleep without telling you how sweet you are.”
121. “Every night I pray to the heavens to give me more years, only so I can have more opportunities to tell you how much you mean to me.”
122. “I love being your friend. I would be lying if I said I didn’t sometimes wish we were more than that. Goodnight.”
123. “Before I fall asleep, I just want you to know that you are the one I am thinking of.”
124. “I hate falling asleep because it means I have to say goodnight to you.”
125. “I hope you have sweet dreams tonight – of me.”
126. “I know today was a hard day for you, so I hope you are able to sleep well tonight. Tomorrow will be a
127. “I’m about to fall asleep, but I couldn’t let myself pass out without telling you that you are the one I am thinking on.”
128. “I was just thinking of you and I wanted to say goodnight!”
129. “Thanks for all of the smiles today. I hope you sleep well.”
130. “I can sleep more soundly tonight after the wonderful day that we spent together.”
131. “I am counting down the hours until I can see your face again.”
Is your bae far away?
132. “I can’t wait until the day comes that we are together, so I can kiss you goodnight and kiss you good morning. Goodnight.”
133. “The hardest thing in my life is that I don’t get to be with you every moment. I long for that day to come. Goodnight baby.”
134. “I can’t wait to be closer to you, babe. When I am with you I am home.”
135. “I am looking forward to seeing you this weekend, goodnight. I’ll talk to you in the morning.”
136. “They say that distance makes the heart grow fonder, but all this distance is doing is making me miss you.”
137. “I am counting down the days until I can see you next, baby – Waking up tomorrow means that
another day has passed!”
138. “Distance can’t keep us apart; our love is too strong. Goodnight my love.”
139. “I wish I were there to hold you tight, but since I am not I will just say goodnight.”
140. “As I fall asleep, I can’t help but wish that you were here with your head on my chest. I can’t wait until that happens.”
141. “Take a look outside your window. Even though we are apart, we are looking up at the moon.”
Goodnight Love notes
142. “Goodnight baby, sweet dreams. I can’t wait to see you tomorrow!”
143. “I am absolutely thrilled to be your boyfriend. Thank you for giving me this honor.”
144. “You are the one for me. There is absolutely no doubt in my mind about that. Goodnight, my girlfriend.”
145. “I know it’s hard for you to fall asleep without me. All I can hope is that this remains the biggest problem in your life.”
146. “Every time I fall asleep; I miss you dearly. Talk to you in about 8 hours.”
147. “My sleep just isn’t the same without you in my bed.”
148. “It is so cruel for me to now have to sleep alone after spending the entire day with you.”
149. “Baby, there is only room for you in my heart, and nobody else. Goodnight.”
150. “No matter what tomorrow may throw our way; I will always be in love with you.”
151. “I hope you can fall asleep knowing that you mean the world to me.”
Cheesy goodnight texts for her
152. “Good night, the sun says goodbye and the moon says hello.”
153. “Every night that I fall to sleep I pray I dream about you. Goodnight, beautiful.”
154. “May your slumber be as peaceful and warm as you are, my darling.”
155. “Starlight, star bright, you’re the only star I see tonight.”
156. “Tonight, my body falls awake but my heart beats for you.”
157. “My love for you is so deep that even the well is jealous.”
158. “I don’t need to dream because you make my reality so amazing.”
159. “I would walk for miles and miles just to kiss you before you fall asleep.”
160. “I have you to thank you for the smile that is on my face every night when I fall asleep.”
161. “Goodnight my dear, you shine brighter than the sun at high noon.”
Words she will love to hear
162. “You are the last thing that I think about before going to bed and the first thing that I think about when I wake up.”
163. “You are the reason my heart flutters every time I check my phone. I do not want to ever stop falling for you.”
164. “Sleep well tonight, and remember that tomorrow is going to be a good day. How do I know? Because it is another day I get to spend with you.”
165. “When I am down, you lift me up. When I am frowning, you turn it into a smile. I am so happy for you in my life.”
166. “Before I met you, my life was empty. Now that you are in my life I am overcome with emotions of gratitude every day.”
167. “All I do is think about you. There is no doubt in my mind that you complete me. Every small thing you
do to make me happy adds up to make me the happiest man in the world.”
168. “Before I met you, I was afraid of falling in love. But now that I know you, I fall asleep with a smile on my face every single night. Thank you for making me so happy.”
169. “Do you have any idea how happy you make me? I hope that every night you fall asleep thinking about how you are the most wonderful girl in the universe.”
170. “I am completely captivated by you. You complete this crazy thing that we call life. With you, I know that I have found my second half.”
171. “I never would have imagined that I can love somebody this much. Thank you for bringing me to new levels that I would have never imagined possible.”
Frequently Asked Questions(FAQs)
Is it OK to send goodnight texts to someone I’m not dating?
For sure. But just remember that the word choice and the context will matter here. If you are flirting but you aren’t dating a person, there are still gorgeous texts to send your crush, and wish them a lovely evening and sweet dreams.
Sending romantic good night messages for your boyfriend or girlfriend; well, these phrases to use are endless.
Whether it's a few simple words, or whether you are being romantic or playful, it shows that you are thinking of her and care for her.
How can I tell if someone is into me over text?
Unless someone tells you directly they like you, it can be quite difficult to tell if someone likes you by text.
You will wonder if they are interested or just being friendly. If the person sends you goodnight messages like "good night handsome," "good night darling" or "good night sweetheart," you can be sure that they really are into you.
If the message comes with a heart emoji, for example, they might really be trying to start a flirtatious relationship with you.
If they frequently use sweet sayings or give you compliments, those are other reasons they like you. Usually, you can pick up hints that someone really likes you over text.
How can I make her fall for me through texting?
Always be a good listener and allow her to tell her story. Telling you her story means she respects and trusts you already – these are some basics for love.
Give her attention as well, even if texting is an online platform. See what the experts say.
What if I find it really difficult to communicate with others outside of texting? 
You can always chat with a counselor who will help you to overcome these difficulties. Texting should be flowing and free, complementing other forms of communication.
It shouldn’t be the sole means of communication between friends. But it can help to keep casual friendships or romantic one’s going.
Text communication has become a lovely and convenient way to convey a message in all kinds of situations; even some emojis without words can say a lot in a text message!
If you’re at the start of a brand new exciting relationship, texting can really bring you closer together.
If you are at the crossroads in a relationship or even a friendship, it might be much better to talk with someone in person.
For some, texting can seem like a cowardly way out of a situation when you don’t want to face a person.
But talking face to face with someone can prevent a situation from becoming worse.
For guys and girls in love and seeking new friendships, they will love using the cute texts we have given you.
Who doesn’t want to hear, “I’ve never experienced happiness quite like what I feel when I’m with you”, right?
Just make sure the love quotes you pick are appropriate for the right stages of your relationship.
Calling someone your “true love” for instance is probably best reserved for someone you’ve been dating for a while.
A text message saying goodnight shows someone just how much you care.