151 Sweet & Cute Flirty Text Messages to Send to a Guy You Just Met or Your Boyfriend

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  • What is a good flirty text to send to a guy?
  • What are the things to say when flirting with a guy?
  • How do you tell a guy he’s hot over text?

Which woman doesn’t love the thought of guys going all ballistic over her?

A beautiful sexy girl has a great start already.

But then she has to have that wow factor about her too!

That wow factor that can hook him around her little finger and keep him there.

It can be pretty hard to accomplish that!

We’ve got some very flirtatious texts to help you if you are such a girl; Witty texts or SMS that will compliment the guy you have your eye on.

These might do the trick to reel him in, hook, line, and sinker.

Good luck!

There are heaps of things that drive different men crazy for a woman – in some cases, it does not require you to be the belle of the ball either.

Sophistication and seductiveness count, sure, but if you have wit and know what to say at the crucial moments, you might also have hit the bull’s eye.

What you say will count a lot with him.

When you send him the odd, flirty, seductive texts, he will be smitten.

Play the game wisely, and you will go far.

Be patient and don’t go over the top, pushing too hard and coming across as overbearing.

You can start by sending him some hot, flirty texts, and if he is keen on them, you can decide for yourself how you will proceed.

See how just one right text can brighten his day and bring a smile to his face.

What Will I Learn?

151 Best and Clever Flirting Words to Say to Guys

Lady conversing on text

Let’s start with some great good morning texts to start his day bright…

1. “I’m so grateful that I get to wake up and know that I have you in my life.”

2. “I wish that every morning of mine would start with a lovely smile on your face and end with caring hugs from you. Good morning, handsome!”

3. “I wish I were there to hit the snooze button with you.”

4. “Even if you’re miles away from me, I want to let you know that you are always in my heart. I miss you so much. Have a nice day, handsome.”

5. “Mornings without you lying by my side are what I hate the most. I can’t wait for you to come home, so I can melt in your arms again.”

6. “We are apart geographically, but our hearts are close to each other. I miss you a lot. Good morning, my prince charming.”

7. “I woke up to the thought of my love for you. Good morning, babe.”

8. “I can still smell your scent on my skin from last night. Good morning and hurry to come to me to hold me tight as I want it.”

9. “Were you a coffee bean in your past life? It must have been because I can’t start my day without you! Good morning, my handsome.”

10. “I want you to be the first person I see when I wake up in the morning. I miss your handsomeness. Good morning, sweetheart.”

11. “I am sending you some virtual kisses for a good morning. And, you will get the real ones when you come over.”

12. “Morning, babe. Wishing I could kiss your handsome face as I wake up.”

13. “My pillow is getting jealous because it knows I’d rather be sleeping on you!”

14. “Honestly, my day won’t be complete without sending my morning wishes to the man of my dreams.”

15. “Wake up, babe. It’s rainy and cold outside. I want you here to warm me up with your kisses.”

16. “I hope the morning sun is bright and warm where you are today! Sending you my love and I hope you have a great day.”

17. “Morning, handsome. I wish I woke up pressed up against you… but I guess there’s always tonight.”

18. “I spent the whole night dreaming of you, and I will spend the whole day thinking of you. Morning, babe!”

19. “The morning sun is so gorgeous here, but it would be an even more beautiful morning if I had woken up beside you. Miss you, honey.”

20. “Wish I was starting my morning with you so I could wake you up properly.”

21. “I was dreaming of kissing you the whole night. Please come soon, and don’t ever leave.”

22. “This sunny morning would be even sunnier if I had you in my arms. Have a lovely day, handsome man.”

23. “Good morning to the world’s greatest lover. We can test if this statement is true later tonight!”

24. “Morning, babe! Did you sleep well, or were you preoccupied dreaming of me?”

25. “Just woke up from a dream of you kissing me… if only it was real! Missing you and our cuddles, love you.”

26. “I had a dream about you last night. Do you want to come over, so I can show you what I was dreaming of?”

27. “I miss waking up to my handsome man in the morning. I hope you have an incredible day; I don’t know where I would be without you.”

28. “Has anyone ever told you those mornings are made for spooning naked? Well, now you know! Just keeping you in the loop.”

29. “Can’t wait to see you today. I am counting the minutes until I can see your beautiful face.”

30. “I woke up to this incredibly handsome man lying next to me; I almost thought I was dreaming at first. Love you, hot stuff!”

31. “I wish I was there to kiss you all over and give you the best morning ever!”

32. “Nothing feels better than a morning kiss, so I’m sending one your way! I love you, baby!”

33. “On a cold morning like this one, I would love the company of a hot guy like you.”

You don’t want him to forget you while he is at work, do you?

Men love to be reminded of how special and adored they are.

A romantic text will get a smile on his face in a boring meeting.

But don’t ask simple questions like “How is your day going?”

Then you can expect a bored, short answer in reply that will cut any conversation.

This is about flirting, so level your texts up with a cute emoji or Gif at the end of your message…

34. “Hi, handsome! Hope you’ll have a nice day, babe.”

35. “I’m counting the minutes until I kiss your lips again.”

36. “I still have the smile that you gave me when we first met.”

37. “I feel so safe when I’m with you.”

38. “I love all the stars in the sky, but they are nothing compared to the ones in your eyes!”

39. “Suddenly, all the love songs I hear remind me of you.”

40. “The moment I saw you for the first time, my heart knew that you are the one.”

41. “We just said bye but I miss you already.”

42. “Are you missing me?
A: Yes
B: Definitely, yes.”

43. “I know it’s cheesy, but you’re the first person I think of when I wake up in the morning.”

44. “I thought I would text you first to tell you that I’m already imagining the feel of your lips on mine.”

45. “Everything good about my life has improved just because of you.”

46. “My love for you is like a sweet symphony. The melody is in the beating of our hearts.”

47. “I don’t have anything to talk about, but I want to talk to you, hi.”

48. “I keep thinking about how amazing and sexy you looked the last time I saw you. I couldn’t keep my eyes off you.”

49. “You are a great guy – I love you more than a lot.”

50. “You’re going to think I’m lying, but you’re pretty much my dream guy.”

51. “I love you more than words can say, so I just want to say that I love you so and will continue to do so forevermore.”

52. “You amaze me daily with your little acts of kindness.”

53. “I’m so bored; I need you to rescue me.”

54. “There never was and never can be another you. You are the one who makes me smile, so love me now and leave me never. Let us spend eternity together.”

55. “I don’t know when you entered my heart, but I know for sure that I never want you to leave it.”

Brighten up his day, reminding him of what is coming later…

56. “I promise I will always be by your side, even under you or on top of you if you prefer.”

57. “I’m making the first move regarding texting, so I’m expecting you to make the first move regarding kissing.”

58. “A kiss burns like seven calories a minute; wanna work out?”

59. “Congratulations, you just won an award for stealing my heart. And, your award is waiting in our bedroom tonight.”

60. “I’ve got one condition to invite you over: you’re forbidden from keeping your hands to yourself. You should tell me in detail about what you’ll do with them.”

61. “What’s your favorite color? That’s the lingerie I’m wearing tonight.”

62. “If you wanna stop by my house tonight, I’ll make it worth the trip.”

63. “Dinner’s on me tonight. Anything you want, plus me as dessert.”

64. “Just the thought of you lying beside me excites me and takes my sleep away at night. I can’t control myself when I’m thinking of you!”

65. “Your words alone can turn me on. But still, I want to know how your actions are. Tonight is a perfect time, don’t you think?”

66. “I was sweating a lot when I woke up today. Not because it was too hot in the morning, but because of the dream I was having about you. It was too hot to handle.”

67. “Do you want to mess my bed up tonight?”

68. “All I can think about is how I can’t wait to see my clothes lying on the floor next to yours.”

69. “What do you want me to wear when you come home tonight?”

70. “My bedsheets still smell like you, and it’s driving me crazy. Please fill the void that you created when you left this morning? I’m not sure I can take another hour without you.”

Flirty Texts For a Guy You Just Met

He will love it if you tease him, but don’t let him know that you like him.

Let him do the chasing – men enjoy that.

So even though he smites you, still give him the chance to pursue you.

See how positively it affects his ego – he will double the effort to seduce you!

71. “There is that cute guy I can’t stop thinking about… What should I do about him?”

72. “I know someone who might have a crush on you!”

73. “Do you have any sexual fantasies?”

74. “You are so lucky because you are so cute. That’s why I keep you around.”

75. “Got to go on a girl’s night out. Drunk-text you later?”

76. “Boy, you sure know how to make a girl miss you!”

77. “Do you believe in lust at first sight or should I walk past you one more time?”

78. “I have so many plans for tonight… and you’re included in all of them!”

79. “Do you want to hear a secret? If you answer yes, come over so I can tell you in person. Or better yet… show you.”

80. “I’m happy to inform you that I’ve completely fallen for you. The only question is… what will you do about that?”

81. “Just thinking about all the things we could be doing if you were at my place right now.”

82. “Do you have any idea how hot you are?”

83. “Are you in the mood for some fun?”

84. “Texting is good, but when can I lay my eyes on those muscles of yours?”

85. “This morning, I woke up all sweaty. It wasn’t because the morning was too hot. It was because my dreams of you were too hot to handle.”

86. “I promise you I’ll always be by your side. Well, except when I’m underneath you.”

87. “Let’s try something new in the kitchen tonight. And no, I don’t mean food!”

88. “I have a plan for the evening. Do you want a naked bear hug, yes or yes?”

You can also send him erotic texts if you are in a committed relationship

89. “I just saw that hot waitress was checking you out! I’m guessing somebody’s a little jealous of the catch that I’m with. Too bad you’re all mine!”

90. “Women all like to spend time with you! I just feel bad for them for not knowing just how amazing your company is. You’re like my hot little secret!”

91. “You are a true beast in the bedroom! I used to think I had good sex but with you, it’s on a whole other level… Man oh man, I guess I no longer need the gym.”

92. “Let me take care of you; no need to do it by yourself! You’ll be very pleased with my service… Let me say thank you for being such a hot piece of ass the best way I know how.”

93. “It’s not that I choose to be this thirsty for you all the time; it’s just that you’re so freaking sexy that you leave me no choice!”

94. “Promise me one thing—if we ever get into a fight, we’ll resolve it like adults… naked in the bedroom. Spanking optional.”

Some erotic texting is only for those who are already in a relationship.

If you start with a new guy with these types of texts and you don’t know each other, it might sound like you are up for sex immediately.

Erotic texts for those couples who know each other deeply are taken exactly as intended – but it’s really up to you.

95. “You’re the only guy I ever want to see naked again. I hope you’re happy with yourself… I know I am!”

96. “In my mind right now, we’re not at work but in the bedroom, doing all kinds of questionable things to each other, and neither one of us can breathe properly.”

97. “When you kiss my neck, I’m not responsible for anything I might do to you when you’re done.”

98. “Do you want to mess up the bed with me tonight?”

99. “Come over; I’ve got all of your favorites: Pizza, Beer, and of course…Me!”

100. “I can’t get you out of my inappropriate thoughts.”

101. “Come over, I’ll make your visit worth your while.”

102. “My bed is way too big for one person.”

103. “I just got out of the shower; wanna come and help me dry off?”

104. “I am so excited about our date tonight. If you play your cards right, you’ll love what I’ve planned for later!”

105. “Tonight, I will do all the work, and you will scream and beg for more! Let’s reverse the roles for a change, I promise you’ll love it.”

106. “You will not be able to move once I finish with you tonight!”

107. “Tonight, I want to slowly kiss my way from your lips downward… The only question is, how far down will I go?”

108. “I hate that I’m sitting here at work right now instead of doing all kinds of dirty things with you. If you only knew the filthy things in my head right now.”

109. “There’s this new position I heard about today, and I can’t wait to try it out… When do you think you can come over?”

110. “What do you want me to do to you tonight and wearing what? I’m in the mood for granting some wishes… as long as you promise you’ve been naughty.”

111. “I thought about you this morning while I was in the shower…. Guess that’s why it took me so long to get out.”

112. “If you can guess what color my bra is, I’ll give you a blow job tonight!”

113. “I’ve been a bad girl today. I need a spanking.”

114. “I want to mark you as mine; that’s why I’ve been sharpening my nails.”

115. “I’m going to slowly trace my lips over yours – Then I’m going to kiss you…from your lips… down. And I will keep kissing you all over until you beg me for more.”

116. “What are you doing later? Mind if I drop by to blow you?”

117. “I found some sex positions I think we should try, what do you say?”

Want some amusing ones to take the heat off?

118. “I am not a photographer, but I can still picture you and me together…in my bed.”

119. “Your body has 65% water, and guess what? I am very thirsty at the moment.”

120. “I will love you forever. LOL! But I can’t live that long.”

121. “You are under arrest for being too cute. Your punishment is to be silent, and if not followed, then you will be silenced with kisses.”

122. “They say it’s best to stay inside during an earthquake. You might want to stay inside of me as you rock my world!”

123. “If kissing is the language of love, then we have a lot to talk about.”

124. “If you’re cute, you can call me baby. If you’re nice, you can call me sweetie. But if you’re hot, you can call me tonight!”

125. “Let’s commit the perfect crime, I’ll steal your heart, and you steal mine.”

126. “Have you made love in a car? Let’s go for a drive tonight.”

127. “They say a picture is worth a thousand words, but when I look at yours, I’m speechless!”

128. “I’m making the first move when it comes to texting, so I’m expecting you to make the first move regarding kissing.”

129. “I’m not a gambler, but I’ve allowed my heart and mind to bet that I will never stop loving you….”

130. “I don’t know much about chess, but I think you’re my knight.”

131. “How is it possible that you get a little hotter every single day?”

132. “Do you have a band-aid? Cause I just scraped my knee falling for you.”

133. “Remind me to bring a pair of gloves when we meet because you are too hot to


Good night and sweet ‘dreamz’!

134. “If I close my eyes tight enough, I can feel your gentle touch all over me. You make me feel alive. But for now, goodnight and sleep tight.”

135. “I just noticed that my bed is a lot more comfortable with you in it.”

136. “On a cold night like tonight, I want something big, warm, and fuzzy. Don’t get any strange ideas. I just want a big hug from you. Goodnight, love.”

137. “Hey you, before I go to sleep I just wanted to let you know how bad I want you. Ok, goodnight.”

138. “No matter how often I try to fall asleep, the room feels so empty without you. So let this night go by fast, so I can see you again. Goodnight.”

139. “I’m standing here with the evening breezes blowing my hair all around. I imagine your kisses warming me up for a peaceful night.”

140. “You better be dreaming of me tonight because I’ll be dreaming of you.”

141. “I can’t fall asleep without a soft pillow and a goodnight text from you.”

142. “I close my eyes and feel the warmth of your embrace although we are many miles apart. I wish we could be together tonight.”

143. “During the day, I keep myself busy, and sometimes time passes. But at night, I miss you.”

144. “Being away from you is impossible. It’s like a punishment for me. Please, let’s be together forever. I love you. I do!”

145. “Good night my love. I have lots of things to say to you, but I’ll keep them till I set my eyes on you again. That’s one thing I always look forward to.”

146. “This bed is lonely without you, but I guess I’ll have to wait till next I see you.”

147. “I can think of more fun ways to fall asleep if you were here, but I guess it’ll have to wait.”

148. “Hmm, what kind of goodnight text would it take to get you in my bed right now?”

149. “Based on everything I’ve been thinking about doing to you, my dreams will be real nice tonight.”

150. “I don’t want to sleep because I know my dreams can’t compare to you in my reality.”

151. “Good night Handsome. Think of me wrapped around you.”

Frequently Asked Questions (FAQs)

How do I really get a guy’s attention when I text him?

You could text him something like these; that will get his attention onto you, for sure:

How do I flirt-text with a guy I like but not making myself so obvious?

  • Be unique and that means being yourself. Naturally, you want him to like you, so be the real you, otherwise, he won’t recognize you when he does get to talk to you face-to-face.
  • Use his name when you are texting; makes it special.
  • Ask him an open question. His answer will help you a lot!
  • Make him laugh and tease him.
  • Give him compliments over text.
  • Use Emoticons.
  • Use texts that will leave him wanting to find out more.

How do I know if the guy wants to be serious about me?

You could sit down with him and tell him, especially if you feel that he is interested in you. It might seem a little nerve-wracking at first, but he will give you an honest answer.

How will I know what his intentions are?

  • You need to figure out and know if he is interested in you.
  • Time will also tell what feedback and interest comes from him. If he is interested in you, he will make sure you know it too.
  • Actions speak louder than words.


We are living in times today when texting has simply become second nature.

It has almost replaced eye-to-eye communication.

It has become the language of love between lovers, thanks to texting.

Whether you are in a relationship or have just started to date someone,; regular everyday texting, romantic texting, and hot texting have simply become the inevitable part of our everyday life.

We have provided you with all the right kinds of text for the guy you want to make your own.

In one day, you can get his attention just by a text!

Often the biggest reason why someone can get “smitten” by a sexy text message is that it doesn’t reveal a lot; it’s full of mystery and intrigue, giving a bit, but not the whole thing!

The suspense can drive you wild!

Flirty texting is a fabulous way to get a new romance started because…

“I’m making the first move when it comes to texting, so I’m expecting you to make the first move when it comes to kissing”

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